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I had to jot this down real quick for you guys… This happiness hack is just…
I mean, this is such a breathtaking, liberating concept that I normally reserve for my exclusive mastermind clients, but I just… I just couldn’t keep it all to myself.
Are you ready??
This Happiness Hack Will Change Your Life!
It’s called love!
I mean really, the crux of my message is love.
I teach love…
I practice love…
I live and breathe love…
This is the magic hack!
Learning to love is what will literally make the difference between a life of joy, peace, success… and a life of misery, loneliness and sorrow!
How do I learn this happiness hack?
First off, yes, you can learn to love.
Every once in a while, I will get a client who seems to have a storm cloud hovering above his head.
I can’t quite explain it, but this person just carries a certain grey around them all the time.
You can see it their posture, in their face, in their eyes… Happiness eludes them.
Then when I meet them again a few weeks later, it’s like an entirely different person!
They stand with confidence and pride. They carry a beaming smile from ear to ear like a badge of honor. They walk with ease, they speak slow and relaxed, and everything just seems brighter when they’re around.
All of a sudden, women are calling them back. All of a sudden they are being considered for a promotion at work and their coworkers adore them. All of a sudden they don’t seem to be screaming internally anymore…
Let me be absolutely clear about one thing: every problem you think you might have can be eliminated, removed or at least partially remedied by learning to live in love.
And you learn to live in love by simply shifting your awareness.
How do I apply this happiness hack?
It begins when you open your eyes.
Take a deep breath and take it all in.
Feel the miracle of another day on earth.
Do some jumping jacks, or some yoga, or whatever – just get moving.
As you’re doing it, go through everything you are thankful for. Start to feel the abundance of joy and love moving through your entire body as it moves.
Put on some upbeat, fun music as loud as possible. Sing in the shower if you can.
Go out and spread some love around you! Blurt some compliments, stop speak to the homeless guy by the metro station, call the Starbucks barista by her name and ask her how her day is going.
Here’s the most important element though – do it with no expectation of anything in return.
“Better than knowledge is meditation. But better still is surrender of attachment to results for there follows immediate peace”. – Bhagavad Gita
The wording here isn’t accidental.
We tend to get so caught up in our own story of ‘poor little me’. So much noise in between the ears that it becomes deafening.
And yet, all we ever really have to do is surrender… To let go… To give instead of to take.
When you learn to love the women you speak with, they will never want to let you go.
When you learn to love the people you work for (your mission in life is to serve) you will be blessed with prosperity and success.
When you learn to love life, you will be blessed with amazing friends and exciting adventures.
When you learn to love yourself, you will never be lonely again.
Cheesy as hell? You bet.
Potent as a nuclear bomb? Fuck yes.
Take it or leave it, but this could change your entire life.
Your fan,
Pat Ananda
Hey Pat!
What an awesome piece of advice! I've really and truly enjoyed reading your entire post, because the
happiness hack that you're talking about not only works but also can completely change a man's life for the better as you say.
Well, I'm saying all this as somebody who managed to recover from years of being a hardcore sexual and seduction addict suffering from narcissistic and borderline personality disorders and get back to life.
And, it's not just any kind of life.
The kind of life that I'm living right now makes me so alive, happy and fulfilled that I wake up each morning full of unstoppable confidence and clarity of seeing my exact next steps taking me that closer to my ultimate success.
I'm now so grateful that God has blessed me in the way of making me stop looking at and approaching random women as my sexual objects, because what I've eventually realized after years of being stuck in all my out-of-control, self-destructive compulsive sexual behaviors around women was that I ended up there all due to the fact that I stopped loving women or pretended as if I never really loved them.
Once I started loving women as human beings and looked back at my first couple of sexual encounters with
the random women that I picked up from the street and a bar, I actually realized that what had always made me truly happy and fulfilled was loving women exactly the same way as I'd always loved myself.
For example, I remember the first day I had a dream vision of wanting to become a super successful, millionaire online entrepreneur and an alpha man capable of effortlessly attracting the most beautiful women on earth. I can now tell you that what was truly making me alive and super excited when reviving this dream vision surrounded by all these women over and over again was not having a raw sex with them like you'd see in a porn movie but sharing the secrets of how I became a successful, millionaire entrepreneur with them.
This is exactly the reason why I never really enjoyed any of my sexual conquests as a pickup guy.
And, here's the bottom line. Desperately wanting to become somebody I am not and constantly forcing myself into doing what I didn't really enjoy were the things that pushed me into all my sexual addiction related personality disorders all for the fact that I was committed to manipulating women, and not loving them as I was supposed to do in the first place.
Hope sharing my experience enlightens some of the guys who ended up in the pickup arts community all because they'd initially mistaken their sex obsession for their true passion.
Bruno
CHAT
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