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Ignore the 'Seeking validation stuff' for the moment, for someone who is at the start of this journey, use this validation as motivation to hook up with girls. You need some fuel inside of you.
Scratch that itch and then perhaps consider NOT seek validation when you are further down the line and you're much more competent with women.
Stop letting the 'Seeking validation' subject fuck with your head, I see too many guys that sabotage themselves with this thinking. Me and this pick up dude once had 2 gorgeous girls ready to bang us, but he ruined it by saying he doesn't need the validation and that he only fucks 10's - nothing below a 10. I soon lost touch with after that. I am in a bar picking girls. Of course I would like to sex the girls I talk to. Not waste my time
But right now, scratch your itch. You're giving me misogynistic vibes and it is getting worse the more you go out.
I still think should stop being a cheap skate and you should hire a dating coach though. You don't seem to have any friends either. Stop being such a loner and get around people that are good with women.
You are letting theory prevent you from doing anything. Stop reading and get approaching for fuck sake, you've read enough.
I fucking hate this subject.
I have friends, but yes you're right, I don't really have any friends. Guys that would do the wingman thing. I'm painfully aware of the false labels I use. I say I'm trying, but I'm not really trying, or else I would have relative success, I just think I'm putting forth effort a good enough effort when obviously I'm not. I've finished reading Models, I've stopped masturbating pretty much entirely, still continuing to go out, but yes the whole walk up to a girl and talk to her thing still makes me want to puke my guts out like so much stan marsh. A coach, as you described, seems like the only logical step forward, even though some people seem to think they're just a band-aid solution. That's where my next research will be focused on. And no god damn SPAM shit. It's either in person or nothing. Unless I'm being forced to do the one thing I want to do but won't, there's no point.