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Author:  supern0va1 [ Tue Sep 15, 2015 1:20 am ]
Post subject:  Telling the World Who You Are Vs. Letting it Tell You

Recently I have found that I have been struggling with waiting for permission from others to take the action or be the person I want to in my life. An example of this is as soon as I am on a first date, whether it be from tinder, POF or wherever, I can almost always do really well and lead it to the close. But why have I been so successful here? It's because the girl already agreed to the date, I already knows she likes me, which leads me to doing all the actions that I know I will be successful at.

I find myself doing this at all times. At the night club I will act like a wuss until I get that first sign, then I can be confident and lead accordingly, but why can't I have done that from the start?

Has anyone else dealt with this issue? Sucks!

Author:  Style981 [ Tue Sep 15, 2015 11:13 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Telling the World Who You Are Vs. Letting it Tell You

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Has anyone else dealt with this issue? Sucks!
Is that even an issue ?? :P

Author:  supern0va1 [ Wed Sep 16, 2015 1:59 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Telling the World Who You Are Vs. Letting it Tell You

Are you dumb?

Author:  Style981 [ Sun Sep 20, 2015 2:39 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Telling the World Who You Are Vs. Letting it Tell You

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Are you dumb?
Your question doesn't even sound like an "issue" to me. If I say "I feel sleepy when I wake up in the morning but after I take a bath I get fresh..Why do I feel sleepy when I just open my eyes".. Does it make sense ?? :)

This is what is called as "getting in state". And if you do it fine after a few approaches there's really nothing to worry about. Its natural.

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