Hello guys. I need some advice. I have realized my biggest problem I have right now with first contact and opening. I don´t enjoy this phase. And not because of anxiety and other stuff. I don´t enjoy it because of how uncertain energy investment it is. I dont like notion of investing all that conversation energy, being interesting and funny, thinking about what should I do and shouldn´t, when there is high probability of no result at all. Don´t you feel sometimes same way as I do?
I know, with practice and routining, this phase comes smooth and easy later, right? The better you are, more results you get, and more fun it become.... But right now...
Have been thinking, best result are, when you enjoy proces itself. When you just walk path, having fun, and everything come itself. But i dont have it yet. Especially when there is no guarantee of geting anything back. Do you have any advice? Is here anyone with same problem as I have, or had same problem?
Thanks for advice guys.