Love the way you write. Has me right there with you ( perfect for devotees ) - yeah I totally mirror what your saying there.
It's really important to have a vision - more then that a vision for your whole life. I use that in seduction to set the frame also. Women also LOVE it when you talk about your VISION ( instant boyfriend material ).
I really like what you wrote:
My life is far bigger than sex
This is massive bro. This is literally the tipping point: your there! Congratulations for that. Yay!
ON Inner Game:
The simplest way to get strong on inner game is to start feeling emotions. Feel deeply all the emotions - make a list of them. Go through each one in the list and really get to know what it feel's like. Then next to each write down and internal 'trigger' that helps you bring up that emotion. Practice bringing the emotions up at will. If something come's up that you don't want to feel - don't change it: instead get to know it intimately as one of your inner game tool's.
What are we doing?
What we are doing is developing your emotional muscle - so that you can instantly 'get into' the inner game that will do several things:
A) have you buzzing whilst you play
B) stat transferring emotions to her whilst you connect
B is actually the most important. Emotional transfer occurs via her motor mirror neurons. It's a BIG inner game master tactic.
You will do it - I believe in you 100%!