What else is it in game other than attracting, seducing and being with chicks?
Can the skills we learn from our countless interactions with women (not to mention the initial rejections) be transferable to other areas in life? And if so, what areas are they and how do they become applicable?
For the first time in my life, I have the seriousness and dedication I lacked to become the best version of me. I've been doing what by my own standards can be characterized as crazy things. Things that I couldn't imagine myself pulling off before like approaching a woman on the street, arranging a date or going out with a girl and finally seducing her. I can clearly see small improvements every day I go out. I even have my own journal to track my own progress as a player and evaluate my skills when it comes to women.
For the first time in my life, I feel I am becoming better at something.
However, being the avid player that I am now (and I am the only one of my friends that is serious about this) makes me question different things about game that goes beyond the ability to attract and seduce women. I love the fact that I am becoming better at this, but the question I tend to ask myself is the following: are all the sacrifices, learning experiences and rejections worth it just for 10-15 minutes of intimacy with a woman?
For me, it has to be more than the chase and the sex. I have to know that the sacrifice im going through now and the skills I am learning on my way can be used in business, health and happiness. I am saying this because I've seen guys that are amazing with women, but fail to utilize their social skills to gain wealth, health and happiness. For me, game has to be more than the art of seduction, because I see it as a way of building character for other areas in life.
So my question is (for the more advanced guys): how has your life improved since getting this down? And what have you learned from game that has given you success in other areas in life?
From where im standing right now. Sex and intimacy is not enough of a reason for me. It has to be something else than that. What are your take on this, guys?
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