If you try to win the game, it will destroy you



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PostPosted: Sat Jul 04, 2015 9:59 pm 
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I just came over this revelation tonight "If you try to win the game, it will destroy you" when I was reading an interesting article. Because PUA is seen by us, as something you can use to gain 100% successful interaction. Therefore, the fails will become something really painful and hard. Also, we start thinking that we have to rely on self-esteem and high social value to be "allowed" to game. I don't know how to put it here, but the game is something to improve your skills, not to win it (win every social interaction), or to become the super-star or the party animal. You should also not believe that you should be in a sort of state to game, or deny certain emotions, or to have social value to game girls. You are good the way you are (of course is recommended to improve), but go out there, have fun and use the game... don't try to win it.

It's just my theory... I can't assess what percentage of reality it has.


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PostPosted: Sat Jul 04, 2015 10:07 pm 
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Whoever told you that you could gain 100% successful interactions owes you an apology.

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PostPosted: Sat Jul 04, 2015 11:07 pm 
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Whoever told you that you could gain 100% successful interactions owes you an apology.
I exaggerated that rate... don't take it as 100%, but as a tendency to high values. English is not my language so I had to put it in a way.


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PostPosted: Sat Jul 04, 2015 11:31 pm 
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Whoever told you that you could gain 100% successful interactions owes you an apology.
I exaggerated that rate... don't take it as 100%, but as a tendency to high values. English is not my language so I had to put it in a way.
Math is different in your language too? If anyone promises you any percentage they owe you an apology.

Here's the thing about the core thinking in PUA, you don't let unsuccessful interactions bother you. If that's in your core when you approach the game then there is no way that the game will destroy you.

Don't spend your time thinking about things that really don't matter.

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