Being an extrovert and being a man that can seduce women are two different things. I'm willing to bet that you are a friendly/outgoing guy, but you don't flirt with women. I'll take it to the next step, that you hope that a woman would give you a clear signal that she's interested in you. That's not how it works if you really want to start being good with women. You need to build actual attraction. There are different methods on doing it, but since you're an extrovert it'll probably be easier to find one that works for you.
Bro that was spot on! hahaha...i might try something out that works, but since im kinda new at this id apreciate some advice on any method you have! If it doesnt work ill try something else, any good flirting tips would be great, thanks mate.
Truthfully, my style revolves around not caring. I used to open girls with canned stuff and that rarely got me anywhere except for being humored. When I started introducing myself and then learning how to have real conversations and letting women know that I thought they were attractive, my success jumped up significantly. Then I realized that the opener doesn't matter as long as I'm not rude (in most cases), because my only real goal is to catch their attention in order to start a conversation and flirt with them. I'll open girls now just by going "Psst" and being obnoxious about it and then dial it down and be charming after we start talking. The thing is that you make attraction known. If you see that she's engaged while you flirt with her, just keep escalating until you pull her into your personal space.
My best advice for flirting is always have strong eye contact, kino, and get her talking about her feelings on things(change your expressions to match the feelings she's describing about any topic). If you can make her laugh...that's a bonus for you.