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PostPosted: Fri Mar 27, 2015 8:43 am 
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hey i was seeing a 7 casually that i didnt care for but finally closed a 9 that has taken me 6 months, (both of us were in relationships) but now i cant stop thinking about her and even txting, even though i know i shouldnt, i feel needy. i have abundance, i go on multiple dates per week and have the 7 but always find one chick that i get addicted to and lose all my alpha mentality, its weird, she plays alot of games and my screws with my head, shes a fwb SPAM but has gotton less responsive cause ive been txting too much so im freezing her out for a few days and looking for new chicks.


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Keep doing what you're doing as far as seeing other girls go.

But you should just make sure that you keep in mind that if you get focussed on that one girl too much then she will know it, she may think you are coming on too strong and you risk losing her.

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PostPosted: Fri Mar 27, 2015 11:24 pm 
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I think thats whats happened. Shes gotton really low investment


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hey i was seeing a 7 casually that i didnt care for but finally closed a 9 that has taken me 6 months, (both of us were in relationships) but now i cant stop thinking about her and even txting, even though i know i shouldnt, i feel needy. i have abundance, i go on multiple dates per week and have the 7 but always find one chick that i get addicted to and lose all my alpha mentality, its weird, she plays alot of games and my screws with my head, shes a fwb SPAM but has gotton less responsive cause ive been txting too much so im freezing her out for a few days and looking for new chicks.
I'm not an expert but someone on this forum said that if a girl loves to play games and f*cks with your head you MUST next her. Otherwise you will lose your whole alpha mentality and the other chicks will notice.


José


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PostPosted: Tue Apr 07, 2015 11:09 pm 
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There is a guy on YouTube called Eliott Hulse, and he generally has this awesome advice of

"BREATHE INTO YOUR BALLS"

Just by the way you wrote this post, you seem like a guy in emotional distress. You are flying up there and lost
ground with YOURSELF.

Forget about women for a moment, and get in touch with yourself again. BREATHE in your balls, feel your body
and masculinity.

Go for a really long walk, or run, and all the while breathe deeply into your stomach and ground yourself.

CENTRE yourself.

Come back to YOURSELF, because you have the answers. Get back in touch with that eternal masculinity
when you hear nothing but the wind and the sound of hawks and you can FEEL yourself.

Good luck.

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PostPosted: Wed Apr 08, 2015 9:41 pm 
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You're coming from a deep repressed sense of neediness. You have to accept yourself in order to accept beautiful things (especially women) in your life, especially in abundance. Otherwise you will be chasing something that is already car behind you.


-An attractive guy inside and out will always be harder to find than any beautiful woman


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