I've realized i'm tolerating way too much and it's time for this to change, so i decided to make a list of behavior i won't tolerate from other people. I just wanted to ask if you could list what kind of boundaries you have or in other words, what kind of behavior you won't tolerate from chicks or people in general.
"A man who stand for nothing, will fall for anything" ~ Malcolm X
It's actually one of the first questions I ask someone who takes coaching from me. You've hit the nail on the head here: Most men have no boundaries
The fact of the matter is that by virtue of simply being hot, a woman can get away with anything she wants with most guys. How attractive is that? That's why the 'neg' was even invented. Another way to hide the fact that you only care that she is attractive and have zero standards.
In any case, the first step is to ask yourself who's values you live by - yours, or society's? Ask yourself, is the epitome of achievement having a hot girlfriend? Only you know the answer.
Sit down and find out what kind of woman you want. Sit down and find out what kind of girl you do NOT want. Once that's done (and this is the tough part), you have to have the courage to genuinely see this through! What that means is to not break your own values no matter how hot she might be.
Qualifying? not even a phase anymore - you're genuinely trying to find out if she can fit into your life. Willingness to walk away? - test me and I will. You will naturally have that laid-back attractive vibe because you are no longer needy; she has to live up to your standards.
And don't do this as some tactic. Do it because life is short, life is beautiful and its worth spending with people that make you happy...
With love and respect
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