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Ehayes91 | PostPosted: Mon Oct 20, 2014 8:36 pm | |
Offline | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sat Feb 22, 2014 11:37 pm Posts: 28 | Good afternoon gentlemen. I hope all is well. Long story short, I started to really get the hang of this pick up stuff. I guess you can say I went from the lame single nerd to the dangerous promiscuous guy with a rather large handful of "conquests under my belt". The problem is that now, all I can really think about is women, sex, who do I want to pursue next, etc. My sex drive is constantly on high. I almost feel like I have to do something sexual everyday, rather it be casual sex with someone, porn, etc. I even feel like it's affecting my cognitive function. I know I need to stop, but it's hard to get over my impulses. So Im not expecting anyone to be a psychologist or anything such, but does anyone have any advice/encouragement to help me get over my huge problem? Thanks.
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lowriderzzz | PostPosted: Mon Oct 20, 2014 10:52 pm | |
Offline | MPUA Forum Zealot | | Joined: Sat Jul 21, 2012 6:56 pm Posts: 404 Location: here and now | May I suggest that you have some sort/level of anxiety going on.
If we don't do anything with anxiety it tends to manifest itself in the form of impulsive behavior. All kind of obsessions and addictions - workaholic, alcoholism, drug dictions, gambling addictions, over eating, over spending money, sex addictions (your case).
Thats the scientific psychological bottom line.
So think it trought and be honest with yourself and see about what you feel anxious.
once you know it there are 2 things that you can do about your anxiety.
1. act masochistic about it - victims thinking, poor me attitude, complaining, moaning , whining - this a WIN/LOOSE deal and don't solve your problem long term.
2. you can do courage and therefore get confidence by doing the act of courage. 100% guaranteed when you do courage you get same amount of confidence. And that way you decrease or eliminate your level of anxiety. And you will not fall into "act without thinking behavior" again.
Does that resonated with you - makes sense ? _________________ "Tell the world what you intend to do, but first show it."
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Ehayes91 | PostPosted: Mon Oct 20, 2014 11:46 pm | |
Offline | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sat Feb 22, 2014 11:37 pm Posts: 28 | Yea I have anxiety.....real bad. And I normally end up going with option 1. So what you're saying is making sense.
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oceanx | PostPosted: Tue Oct 21, 2014 7:14 am | |
Offline | PUA Forum Leader | | Joined: Sat Nov 09, 2013 9:50 pm Posts: 2864 | This happens to some guys. It's like a kid in a candy store x10000000 when their world goes from what is was to seeing the world of women like an endless dessert buffet.
I would suggest spending time with your bros. Go out to dinner with them, shoot the shit, join them in their hobbies; it makes things more well-rounded.
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