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The ULTIMATE Sign of Confidence

In an old western movie Shane, this guy called Shane is a bad-ass gun slinger.

At some point in the movie, there's a scene where couple of people are looking for him, and
while at first he doesn't want to fight them, he eventually meets up with them in an old bar.

So the scene is he's in this bar,
leaning onto the bar. Around him are bad guys who want to
shoot him and take him out.

Clearly, he's in danger.

But, as he's leaning there onto the bar, you won't see any sign of WORRY or FEAR.

He's RELAXED.

But even though he's very, very relaxed, as soon a bad guy tries to pull out a gun to shoot him,
Shane reacts in a split second, taking his gun out and shooting the guy.

So even though he is RELAXED, he is always READY.

When you see a really confident guy, he is relaxed
- that's for certain. But at the same time, he's
also very READY to react or respond to something.

He is very aware of what's going on, but he's not jumpy because of it.

- He's cool.

- He's calm.

- He's ready and relaxed.


I call this state of confidence RELAXED READINESS.

I want to ask you, when you go out, somewhere, anywhere - are you relaxed?

And if you're relaxed, are you READY?

If somebody near you dropped something, would you be so aware that you'd be able to catch it?

If you're just relaxed, you probably look lazy.

But if you're relaxed AND ready, then you probably look very confident.

I want you to look at this picture for a second:

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Now, tell me something:

What do you SEE in this guy?

Relaxation?

Readiness?

Now tell me what you DON'T see in this guy?


- You don't see him be SELF-CONSCIOUS.

- You don't see him try to be someone he's not.

- You don't see him try to be the ALPHA.


He is just relaxed and ready.

So next time you go out, stop trying to "look" cool, and relax.

Instead of thinking how you look and how others perceive you, be ready to catch a glass if someone drops
it.

Do some relaxation exercises, like trampoline jumping, hypnosis, jogging, playing football, lifting weights...

Anything that gets that tension out of your body.

Do some meditation and get out of your head and your thoughts, and in the present moment with the
people.

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How Your ASSUMPTIONS Direct Your Confidence With Women

Have you ever wanted to approach a girl but started thinking thoughts like, "She'll give me a weird look and
reject me" and "She won't want to talk to me.."?


Or maybe you got into a conversation with a girl, and your mind starts racing with thought like, "She doesn't
like me, she thinks I'm weird"
and "Man what can I do to create attraction with her? It's so hard..."

What you were experiencing were your ASSUMPTIONS. Your ASSUMPTIONS are basically your BELIEFS about
what's going to happen.

You know the same assumptions you have when the teacher said, "Ok, so today I'll call someone in front the
white board to answer questions for grade"
and you just "knew" she'll pick you...

"She'll ask me, she'll ask me, she'll ask me..."

And then she does.

Your assumptions work like self-fulfilling prophecies. There is a thing called the LAW OF EXPECTATION which says
that whatever you EXPECT to happen with FEELING, will end up really happening.

Your ASSUMPTIONS are unconscious thoughts that race through your mind when you want to talk to a girl.

They give you scenarios and pictures about what will really happen when you go there and say something
to a girl.

And here's the thing:

> If those assumptions are NEGATIVE, meaning you imagine how a girl will reject you and not like you, then
that's what will probably happen.

> And if those assumptions are POSITIVE, meaning you imagine how a girl will smile and like you, then that's
what will probably happen too.


Here's the great news:

Even though you feel like you don't have any power over what your mind will assume, there is a very simple
and effective way to CHANGE your assumptions.


What is this way?

It is through the art and science of, and you want to write this word down, INCANTATIONS.

What?

INCANTATIONS.

Incantations are similar to affirmations, but they differ in one key element.

While affirmations are repeated almost half asleep and with no activity (just standing there and repeating it), incantations are said with your ENTIRE BODY, MIND AND HEART.

Let't say one of your assumptions is that if you approach a woman, she will give you a weird look and
ignore you.


Now let's say that you want to install a new assumption, which is that if you approach a girl, a girl will smile at you, and will be excited about meeting you.

How do you do it?

With usual affirmations, you would repeat this to yourself, "When I approach a girl, she will smile and be
excited about meeting me..."


With boring tone, almost like a who-are-you-kidding attitude, right?

Now, with incantations, you do something very different.

You say the same thing, "When I approach a girl, she will smile and be excited about meeting me..." but you
engage your ENTIRE BODY, MIND AND HEART while you're saying it.

So how?

Get up right now, stand up straight and say this with a clear, decisive and commanding tone.

Say, "WHEN I APPROACH A GIRL, SHE WILL SMILE AND BE EXCITED ABOUT MEETING ME!"

And as you say it, stand erect, FEEL the words sinking into your body. FEEL the words to be
true.

At first what you'll notice is your mind is going to say things like, "That's BS, that won't happen"

BUT

As you stay at it, and you say it with conviction and determination, after couple of times you'll notice your
mind backing away, and your new assumption will start to have more and more power.


So here are the STEPS:

1. Write down the desired assumption of what you want to believe will happen if you approach a girl

2. Get up, stand up straight and put yourself into a POWERFUL state through breathing deep into your stomach

3. Say the INCANTATION with clear, determined and commanding voice, so it PENETRATES your body

4. Notice the initial resistance of your mind, but KEEP SAYING it (at least 20 times) and you'll notice a huge
difference in how you feel

5. Go out and TEST it. Go and try talking with a girl after doing it couple of times. You'll notice the difference

Now here is my promise.

If you do what I described here for you EVERY DAY for 10 min in the morning, in 7 DAYS
you will be a completely different person.

> You won't have those thoughts about what the girl thinks of you anymore
> You won't be as tense in the conversations, but you'll feel relaxed and casual
> You'll feel confident, self-assured and like yourself.


I know, that's a big promise for a simple exercise. Take my word for it, and prove me wrong :)

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>You're not comfortable approaching women
>You are serious about eliminating it

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