Hey man I feel where your coming from. I think that you should try

out Mystery Method. This is the only method I use and it works charms man!

What kind of limiting beliefs do you have? Mind expanding more?

Thinking things like, "Oh I can't approach women because it's not the person I am, and how others see me". I've spent too much time developing bad habits and thoughts like this basically. Worrying what others think is also a bad one. I know it doesn't matter what others truly think, and they probably don't even pay attention, but it's easier said than done I feel.

Don`t make the mistake of confusing inner game with approach anxiety.

The first one goes much deeper than the last one, when you only need a quick fix for AA as a solution, problems with inner game can go a long way adressing them.

My take on your situation? Go watch some youtube vids of rsd, I recommend the Jeffy show and Tyler`s vids. You`ll be just fine.

Just remember: approach anxiety is such a simple step to improve, you might find yourself not having confidence on routines or what`s next to say after you`ve approached this girl.

This is why everyone recommends you to go out a lot and get experience: that`s were you get confidence from; going out and taking the steps.

Watch a couple of vids, and go out and really put yourself out there.

Don`t make the mistake of confusing inner game with approach anxiety.

The first one goes much deeper than the last one, when you only need a quick fix for AA as a solution, problems with inner game can go a long way adressing them.

My take on your situation? Go watch some youtube vids of rsd, I recommend the Jeffy show and Tyler`s vids. You`ll be just fine.

Just remember: approach anxiety is such a simple step to improve, you might find yourself not having confidence on routines or what`s next to say after you`ve approached this girl.

This is why everyone recommends you to go out a lot and get experience: that`s were you get confidence from; going out and taking the steps.

Watch a couple of vids, and go out and really put yourself out there.

I mean I know what you mean man. But if you don't believe in yourself...

then how do you expect for other people to believe in you?



The best way to get self belief up is to read self help books and listen

to positive audio material man.

Like you, I'm good looking too. I'd say I'm a 9 cause I'm also well groomed. I was a "natural" back in middle school and high school (Infact some of the things I do last time are what PUAs do today, like ignoring the target and get approved by her friends, negging, false take away. I did that all naturally without knowing). Girls chased me like crazy haha. But there are other days when as soon as I opened my mouth, they run off.

Are you approaching any women at all though? It looks like AA. I also have this most of the time, well kinda. It IS a limiting belief, where your inner game is poor. But if you're not approaching women then it seems like AA.

You see I get this state a lot too but I can approach women, just that I can't do any attraction and shit.

I suggest you watch RSD Tyler Durden's inner game stuff. He's really good. Like really really really good. I have to admit, when I'm in my positive state I'm actually like him haha.

Here's one, http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ANKKhMAROX8

Well...aside from anything having to do with the game.

Try reading "How to win friends and influence people" the book

or you can go get audio CDs for it.



Another good one is "The Secret" basically talks about the mind. There is so much more

good material then things relating to the game man. Try it!

I've looked at tons of material that has to do with game.
David DeAngelo series
RSD
Also did read how to win friends and infleunce people
magic bullet, mystery method etc.

I just have trouble adopting the mindset that I can do all this stuff written in the books.