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Social energy > Getting the girl.
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Author:  Punchfacer [ Thu Jul 18, 2013 2:24 pm ]
Post subject:  Social energy > Getting the girl.
Uh, so... PUA is a % game. Right?

So. We DON'T play to win the single girl but to get the higher percentage.
Which means we have to design ourselves, our tactics and our moves to create the best chance for us to get MORE girls not just the one. The one doesn't matter.

Why did I mention social energy?
Social energy seems to be one of the things that I can't talk to people without (the exception being if I have a reason, but if I don't, I'm fucked and I can say nothing). The energy gives you a reason in itself, it has to burst outside of you and you're just letting it. You chat up more people if you're high on the energy (and are more open) and therefore you get laid more. Also, you get a laid back, aloof alpha attitude with the single girls you talk to (like they didn't matter that much anymore).

Whatd'ya think?
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Fri Jul 19, 2013 7:40 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Social energy > Getting the girl.
Quote:
Uh, so... PUA is a % game. Right?

So. We DON'T play to win the single girl but to get the higher percentage.
Which means we have to design ourselves, our tactics and our moves to create the best chance for us to get MORE girls not just the one. The one doesn't matter.

Why did I mention social energy?
Social energy seems to be one of the things that I can't talk to people without (the exception being if I have a reason, but if I don't, I'm fucked and I can say nothing). The energy gives you a reason in itself, it has to burst outside of you and you're just letting it. You chat up more people if you're high on the energy (and are more open) and therefore you get laid more. Also, you get a laid back, aloof alpha attitude with the single girls you talk to (like they didn't matter that much anymore).

Whatd'ya think?

Well put my friend. Social momentum is key for pick up.
Author:  Zirk13 [ Fri Jul 19, 2013 8:23 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Social energy > Getting the girl.
I know what you mean of this energy, the other day a job called about a manager position and i had just had plenty of sleep, just got paid, ate just the right amount, got stopped by random people who were smiling and saying hi little banters here and there, whistled at some girls for no reason and kept walking then had my interview and it was like I was alive. consecutive back to back little good moments and I wasnt nervous and I didn't care if I got the job or not. the interviewer said she was pretty sure she wanted me to be the one to be hired. I went to my overnight job that night and I was smiling and talking to everyone I worked with they smiled and these are overnight people who usually look muggy and down having to work. I even got asked "what are you so happy about" I was like ionno. It's to bad there isn't some button we can just press over and over to give that same momentum
Author:  Nova1989 [ Sat Aug 10, 2013 7:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Social energy > Getting the girl.
Couldn't put it better myself...

"social energy" is a big part of my game. When i and my friend's go to nightclubs, we are usually the crowd who look to be having the most fun! be that through dancing/messing about. When people see that your social energy is higher than their's and that you are having fun, its as if they feel they want to be a part of that.

On a number of occasions, i have experienced a number of girls trying to catch my attention, be it through simply trying to draw eye contact (which i engage and ensure they break first with a cheeky smile to match) or more so by body contact on the dancefloor.

i find this far more natural and sustainable as its your personality blossoming through (if your the type who does enjoy throwing a few shapes on the dancefloor). if not, thats cool! im sure you have your ways and means!

Bottom line is, Fun and energy is attractive! Go out, engage in some banter with your fellow PUA/friends and see where it leads!!!! GIRLS WILL NOTICE and at the absolute minimum puts you on a better footing when looking to engage in conversation!
Author:  7000 [ Tue Aug 13, 2013 10:42 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Social energy > Getting the girl.
Definitely agree. When you're in a really good mood, you are more chatty, you probably "flirt" more (which more often than not is little more than having a joke with strangers) and are just generally more magnetic to be around. Whereas when you're pissed, you tend to be the opposite of all that.

Being able to tap into that energy and raise it at any moment is very useful and would help most people. It's just not always easy to get and maintain it for people who are naturally quieter and more prone to being morose.
Author:  Bruce-Wayne [ Thu Aug 29, 2013 12:23 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Social energy > Getting the girl.
For sure having a playful, fun, social energy is important; but after getting into a conversation with a girl, you gotta start shifting from social to seductive.

What matters most is your INTENT. If you just intend to be social, you'll be fun and funny and you'll be the cool fun guy she talked to, but if your intent is to be seductive, you'll unconsciously do things more geared towards turning her on rather than just being social, and you'll end up being the guy who got her wet rather than the guy she had a fun social interaction with.
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