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| Author: | Donston [ Tue Jun 25, 2013 2:54 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How to be consistent: Intermediate level to Advance level. |
Intermediate Mindset If you skipped the newbie mindset, I recommend you go over it because you may not understand some of the concepts explained in this section. Here is the link below, newbie-mindset-extreme-self-love-how-to ... 56449.html Let’s get started. • The intermediate level are guys whose been going out for a while but unable to stay consistent in terms of pulling girls. Basically, they can’t cross that threshold of intermediate to advance level. Their common sticking points are, - They only pull girls occasionally, when all the planets align. - They pull girls home but get last minute resistance (LMR for short). • The intermediate mindset to help overcome the intermediate sticking points is the “I am having fun” headspace. This mind set will be stacked upon the newbie mindset of “I am awesome” headspace. • Where we force this headspace as our inner game to help dictate our behaviors and action when gaming. • Therefore, for every girl you approach, the mindset that is constantly in your head is, “I am awesome” and “I am having fun”. • This is where a lot of the problems occur for the intermediate guys. They have problems maintaining their awesomeness and fun headspace every time they go out. Especially when they interact with hotter babes. - Maybe the music playing is not the type they prefer. For example they are playing country music. Everyone hates country music (except for me ^_^). o For example: (Chode): “I can’t have fun. I hate country music.” - Maybe the types of people in the venue are not the type they normally talk to. You feel that everyone else is having fun while you are being alienated. - Maybe they are not drinking and they can’t have fun when sober. Or worst they try to chase a good state by drinking and drinking until they puke. o For example: (Wing): “Let’s go dance.” (Chode): “I’m not drunk yet.” (Wing): “Let’s go do some karaoke.” (Chode): “I’m not drunk yet.” Wing: “Let’s approach girls.” (Chode): “I’m not drunk yet.” • You must level up to the point where you do not let the environment dictate your mindsets of “I am awesome” and “I am having fun” headspace! - Meaning that this is an inner game issue not an outer game issue. Where some guys think that by relying on outside stimulus will help them feel good. For example, fake smiling (outer game) to get a specific reaction from the girl vs. genuinely smiling because you feel good (inner game). Due to the law of state transfer you feeling good results in the girl feeling good. • To achieve the “I am having fun” headspace is done by lowering your criteria for what you find is fun. - Lowering your criteria for fun is pillared by the “Self Amusement” behavior. • If you want to be consistent, every time you go out, you must become the Self Amusement guy and force the fun to feel good inside. • Don’t let the environment overwhelm your mindsets and be conscious of it. Cut out the negative thoughts and excuses and start focusing on what is fun to you. • Before we further elaborate on the Self Amusement behavior lets review the reaction-seeking guy again (aka: Symptoms of a bitch :p). - He tries to poke at the girl (trying to impress) using his actions and his words to get a good response from the girl. - When the girl smiles or laughs the reaction seeking guy feels good inside. - He tries to be like James Bond and just stands their looking macho and cool. • Now the opposite of the reaction-seeking guy is the Self Amusement guy. The self-amusement guy is the behavior we want to achieve. • Where you start feeling good first. You feel good because you concentrated and forced the awesome and fun headspace before hand. • You are just having the time of your life and whatever you feel she will feel. If anyone tries to stop you from having fun, look at him or her like they are the weird ones, then ignore them and continue having fun. • Most importantly you are using the girl as your stepping-stone to having fun. That you are the party and the girl is just their joining your fun. • Again the self-amusement frame is lowering your criteria were everything is funny. Examples: 1) Laugh at the fact that you are picturing the female bartender naked body while ordering drinks and how she doesn’t know or she knows but you don’t care. Laugh out loud and give a smirk if you get caught. 2) Start dancing ridiculously. Let the club do what it is design to do, which is to pump you up with loud music and fun. This is important for loud venues. Girls are there to enjoy and have fun. They will notice and welcome you if you are also trying to pump your state and having fun. If you are not having fun and feel like pick up is chore, you will get crushed by these girls or worst, they won’t even notice your presence. Therefore, first have fun then approach and interact girls. Get the good vibe inside you until you have the same or more fun vibe level as the girl(s) before you interact with them. 3) Think of the most ridiculous opener and use it. - Ex: “Hey, excuse me! I love you.” - Ex: I normally use the lyrics off the song playing at that moment. Last night Marvin Gaye - Sexual Healing was playing and I said, “Excuse me. Can I heal you sexually?” to two girls passing by and they were totally receptive and we all laughed after. 4) Try to get rejected or slapped. - Ex: Open girls by calling them sluts/dog/girl, “Hey! Doggy … come dog … (whistle) … (whistle) … come doggy” … if they come all angry … just laugh out loud. Normally, they are fairly receptive because they see you un stifling your self. - Ex: Go for the make out even though it is not there. When she pulls away just laugh out loud, smirk, and say, “I thought you wanted to kiss.” …. Then try again later. Notice that the girl is still there interacting with you. - Jump inside a group of girls dancing in a circle and start grinding with each one of them. Notice that the girls are still there with you. - For fun, when you are in a set just say, “You guys should come over to my house right now. Let’s go … let’s go”. Normally, they will refuse just reply back with, “I thought you guys wanted me to pull you guys home.” Continue gaming. If it works … take them home. Notice that the girls are still there with you. - Ex: In set say, “I want to put a baby in you” or “I want to take you to the woods and molest you” or “Are you wearing a thong or panties from Walmart?” Notice that the girl is still there with you. • To your surprise, you will realize that you can get away with a looooot of stuff. This will give your mind proof that you can get away with a lot of stuff and you will be more confident in taking more bold moves. The reason why this work, especially when you call a girl dog or slut or going for the make out when it is not there, is because you find it funny. No one wants to be a party pooper. You taking bold moves will come out as confidence to people. • Side note, the girl may say no or reject you, but consider that she is still there interacting with you. Therefore, just keep on gaming. In fact because you are doing all of these things for the sake of fun, her saying no or rejecting you will make her feel that she is the weird one for being a party pooper. Also, if you do all of these bold/ballsy things it will sub communicate to the girl that you must do this all of the time and people allow you to do it and follow your lead. • The purpose of doing all this retard things, you may ask, is to get un stifled (aka: Getting rid of your ego). To be 100% expressive. I used the metaphor of most guys who can’t get laid act like James Bond. If you want to be consistent, act like Austen Powers because his behaviors are what girls respond to. - The opposite is the guys who just stand at the wall, like a piece of furniture, holding their drinks like a shield. - The opposite is the guy who does half ass approaches and never boldly take risky moves, like going for the make out, they don’t want to approach because they don’t want to intrude, approaching mix sets, decisively pulling the girl home, being a hardcore closer. • If what I listed above works for you, then by all means, keep doing it. But, if you are not satisfied with your results then do the opposite behavior of what you are doing. The opposite of James Bond is Austen Powers. - I want you to think realize that, what you think is “less awkward” is actually “more awkward”. For example, let’s say you see a hot babe. To get to her you’ll have to walk by all her friends. You maneuver around her friends and you reach her. You open with, “Hey, how’s the weather?” or “You look fucking sexy and I just had to meet you”. You decide which one has a higher success rate? - The statistics are when you take high risk actions it has 90% success rate. But, that 10% failure is super embarrassing as hell! People focus on the embarrassing aspect and neglects the 90% of what is possible. • I said that this method counters LMR and helps you cross the thresholds of intermediate purgatory to advance level. If you’ve been trying to go for the make out, doing bolder moves like isolating her to a dark corner, doing whatever to pull the girl home, all for the sake of fun, then the girl will not be surprised when you pull your dick out when you get her in your bed. Through out the whole interaction from opening to closing the girls knows what is up. So when you guys are in bed she will know that you did not pull your “thingy” out for fresh air. Lastly, the differences between intermediate and advance guys are being able to take more bold/risky moves. Which you have been doing all night for the sake of having fun. • So now since you’ve been concentrating on having fun and being awesome and you see the girl you truly like. You’ll already be in a good mood and great headspace of awesomeness and I am having fun frames. When you approach and interact with that girl she will feel good because you feel good. • So a lot of the sticking points of the intermediate guys come from their lack of self-amusement. Therefore cultivate this by focusing on any thing that you fine fun and fuck shit up in your warm ups all for the sake of forcing the good moods. • Now, as we finish off with the intermediate mindset, we are going to start moving towards the “Man to Woman” interactions. To be totally obvious of our intention right from the start. - To have this intense sexual threat that the girl can obviously sense and of course mix in the “I am having fun” and “I am awesome” mindset. - That if the girl keeps talking to you she is in danger of getting fucked (aka: making love to) in the alleyway, behind the dumpster, in the washroom stall, or all of the above. Of course in our next article of the Advance Mindset: "You are a nympho and you want to fuck me". |
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