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Author:  yeeaabuddy [ Mon Jul 30, 2012 4:19 am ]
Post subject:  How long does it take the average guy to change his mindset?
I don't know why but ever since I was a kid I was too afraid to take any kind of risk with a girl. I was taught that girls choose the guy, not the other way around. That is instilled in my brain like a fish in water. For some reason I can't shake it, I have girls come up and introduce themselves to me at party's but I don't even try to chat them up or make any kind of move because I'm so stuck on getting girls is all about looks. Anyway the reason I'm asking this is because I'm going to a party again tomorrow and I want to end my 8 month virginity streak. If anybody knows what I'm going through or any tips on how to change my mindset, it will be a lot of help for tomorrow, thanks.
Author:  1eye [ Mon Jul 30, 2012 8:46 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How long does it take the average guy to change his mindset?
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I don't know why but ever since I was a kid I was too afraid to take any kind of risk with a girl. I was taught that girls choose the guy, not the other way around. That is instilled in my brain like a fish in water. For some reason I can't shake it, I have girls come up and introduce themselves to me at party's but I don't even try to chat them up or make any kind of move because I'm so stuck on getting girls is all about looks. Anyway the reason I'm asking this is because I'm going to a party again tomorrow and I want to end my 8 month virginity streak. If anybody knows what I'm going through or any tips on how to change my mindset, it will be a lot of help for tomorrow, thanks.
What is this "8 month virginity streak " , you were'nt born a virgin? :)
In short you are afraid of failure or rejection.Ask any PUA if they have ever
experienced it. Should be obvious.This is part of life, just do it,how bad can it be.
They choose you and vice versa.
Author:  pumpington [ Mon Jul 30, 2012 9:15 am ]
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change starts with you, and if you want to change, then you will change, no one can tell you anything you don't already know

you know what you want, and you know which way you can get it

do what is best for yourself, and push for improvement, if you can't do something different, then nothing will change, change your daily habits, and your days will become different, and change won't happen in the future, it happens in the present, if you can't do it today, you probably can't do it tommorow, if you want to change do it, you only have so long, time is passing by constantly

GOOD LUCK
Author:  1eye [ Mon Jul 30, 2012 9:21 am ]
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change starts with you, and if you want to change, then you will change, no one can tell you anything you don't already know

you know what you want, and you know which way you can get it

do what is best for yourself, and push for improvement, if you can't do something different, then nothing will change, change your daily habits, and your days will become different, and change won't happen in the future, it happens in the present, if you can't do it today, you probably can't do it tommorow, if you want to change do it, you only have so long, time is passing by constantly

GOOD LUCK
Thanks for the reinforcement and encouragement pumpington. :)
Author:  johnwillson [ Tue Jul 31, 2012 10:05 am ]
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change starts with you, and if you want to change, then you will change, no one can tell you anything you don't already know

you know what you want, and you know which way you can get it
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