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Author:  AFCPG [ Sat Jul 21, 2012 9:54 pm ]
Post subject:  Confidence
Can u guys please share what confidence feels like with as much details as possible.
Thnaks
Author:  PUA Borna [ Sat Jul 21, 2012 11:57 pm ]
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This is a good tip:

Comfidence doesent exist. Comfidence is just a feeling you have when youre having cerain emotions and when other people see you acting like this.

Formula to success with women is s=n.g+c

Success= numbers game+ comfidence

Comfidence is not taking something seriously. When you dont take something seriously you act like this: relaxed, not forsing it and having funn.

I know this from boxing. When you have a fight with someone you dont take serious youre not scared. You just enjoy jorself and take risks. Most of the time it works out great for you. Its the same in pick up.

If you want comfidence try this: Intiate conversations with girls but dont force it. The secret is that the approach doesent have to work!

Hy
-hy
where you going?
- to shool..

It stopes there. She is not interested. If she was she would have asked you where you where going. But she didnt! Most guys would think: well now i oppened i have to try to get her number. The trouth is you dont! There is no pressure, dont force the interaction. Initiate but dont force. Thats how real comfidence feels. And iniciate simple and honest. No negs. Just something like: Hy, youre cute. Or: you seem to be in a rush.
Author:  JACKAL RONIN J000 [ Sun Jul 22, 2012 2:03 pm ]
Post subject:  hi
Quote:
This is a good tip:

Comfidence doesent exist. Comfidence is just a feeling you have when youre having cerain emotions and when other people see you acting like this.

Formula to success with women is s=n.g+c

Success= numbers game+ comfidence

Comfidence is not taking something seriously. When you dont take something seriously you act like this: relaxed, not forsing it and having funn.

I know this from boxing. When you have a fight with someone you dont take serious youre not scared. You just enjoy jorself and take risks. Most of the time it works out great for you. Its the same in pick up.

If you want comfidence try this: Intiate conversations with girls but dont force it. The secret is that the approach doesent have to work!

Hy
-hy
where you going?
- to shool..

It stopes there. She is not interested. If she was she would have asked you where you where going. But she didnt! Most guys would think: well now i oppened i have to try to get her number. The trouth is you dont! There is no pressure, dont force the interaction. Initiate but dont force. Thats how real comfidence feels. And iniciate simple and honest. No negs. Just something like: Hy, youre cute. Or: you seem to be in a rush.
Half of what u say is correct.

Some may just see it as being lazy, giving up before u have ploughed. Some guys give up because they are scared to plough. The excuse is they are not bothered.

However if u feel confident/happy it is unique to u. One man may feel confident after 1 n close, another only feel confident after 10 f closes.

For me confidence state, goes up and down. It relates to what objectives one has. A Police officers confidence is different to a homeless guy. They are confident in the task they do.

Whereas towards women. Competency builds confidence. More skill u have, more relaxed u will appear. Sense of achievement is unique. Again u may feel shit cus u dont have 100 f closes, and be told be someone who is window cleaner to chill out. His goals are not the same.


I should add, put a daygamer in bar outside his confidence zone, it will drop. The same for a bar gamer in daygame. People who are confident all the time, are thinking about the things they can do, and not what they cant.

So the statement that guy looks confident. Has to be taken in context. For example u maybe be really good at a chess club and respected and deemed confident. Peoplle will always naturally but wrong assume someone has total confidence in only seeing someone in one context.


For me going to the gym and lifting weights is the same thing. Its hards some guys look happy lifting weights, some guys look serious, both achieve the same results.

The only reason some says u r too serious is a way of imposing their way of thinking on u. I guess a guy being serious makes them uncomfortable.
Author:  zlibby76 [ Sun Jul 22, 2012 11:27 pm ]
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Here's an analogy I like to use to describe confidence.

The process of "learning" to ride a bike is just like EVERY new experience. You first see someone riding a bike and that's your FIRST experience with a bike. Next, you want to get on one and ride, it's just that you don't know how. Third, you get on, start riding and FALL and FAIL miserably. IT SUCKS and it's awkward and scary. The FINAL step is you're riding around with NO hands laughing and not thinking about or worried about falling.

CONFIDENCE comes when you can ride your bike and SHOW OFF! When you've put in enough TIME and PRACTICE, you'll be able to do TRICKS and doing "tricks" shows everyone what a BADASS you are.

The FEELING of knowing that you're a badass is CONFIDENCE.

Riding a bike is a metaphor for life.
Author:  Chillzz91 [ Mon Jul 23, 2012 2:40 am ]
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FIRST STEP OF CONFIDENCE MEANS "TRUSTING YOURSELF" BASICALLY!
TRY TRUSTING YOURSELF IN YOUR HEART THAT YOU WILL DO GOOD WHEN YOU ARE TALKING TO A WOMEN. TRUST YOURSELF IN ALL ASPECTS IN LIFE. IF YOU DO GOOD AND SUCCEED YOUR CONFIDENCE WILL RISE. AND IF YOU DONT DO GOOD LESSON LEARNED AND KEEP IT PUSHIN DONT LET NO CHICK OR ANYONE KNOCK U OFF YOUR GAME. AND FEEL NO SHAME! SHAME MEANS U GOT INSECURITIES, AND WOMEN SEE AND SENSE THAT SHIT LIKE FLIES SMELLS SHIT. LOL KILL THAT SPIRIT IN THE NAME OF THE GAME BRO! AINT "NO SHAME" IN THE GAME MY BRO. YOU STILL THE SAME PERSON JUST KEEP GOING WIT IT. THERES MORE BITCHES OUT THERE. TRUST YOURSELF WHEN YOUR ABOUT TO TALK TO A 10 OR 9 FIRST IN YOUR HEART THAT YOUR GAME WILL SUCCEED BEFORE YOU EVEN TALK TO HER SHE MIGHT LIKE OR DISLIKE YOUR GAME. EITHER WAY YOU STILL GONNA DUE YOU AND KEEP IT PUSHIN. AND DONT TAKE IT PERONAL.

SECOND VALUE YOUR MANHOOD THINK OF YOURSELF HIGHLY AS HELL! AINT NOTHING WRONG ABOUT FEELING HIGHLY AND HAVING HIGH STANDARDS. RAISE YOUR STANDARDS TO GET AT BETTER WOMEN INSTEAD OF THESE HOOD RATS. WHEN U START SAYING I AM THE SHIT! I AM PHYSICALLY THE SHIT, I LOOK LIKE THE SHIT, I TALK, WALK, AND DRESS LIKE THE SHIT, EVENTUALLY YOU'LL BECOME THE SHIT! LOL AND PEOPLE WILL START TREATING YOU LIKE YOU'S THE SHIT. AND GIRLS WILL VIBE THAT. THINK OF ALL THE CELEBRITIES LIKE RAPPERS AND STUFF LIKE THAT THEY SAY IM THE BEST RAPPER EVER WHEN SOME OF THEM ARE NOT BUT THEY THINK SO HIGHLY OF THEMSELVES THEY DONT EVEN GIVE A FUCK WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK OF THEM BECAUSE THEY KNOW IN THERE HEART THEY THAT THEY'RE THE SHIT! LOL JUST TRUST YOURSELF AND BELEAVE. EVERYTHINGS GONNA BE ALRIGHT MY BRO.
Author:  AFCPG [ Tue Jul 24, 2012 9:08 pm ]
Post subject:  dd
FIRST STEP OF CONFIDENCE MEANS "TRUSTING YOURSELF" BASICALLY!

Dude thats a nice saying but how can I trust myself when I havent got a girlfriend and Im 18 and my looks isnt bad at all?????
Author:  Chillzz91 [ Tue Jul 24, 2012 11:36 pm ]
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get a girlfriend thats on your level dont try going for these 9s an 10s at first because you'll get yourself crushed all the time. Most of these dudes here says get a 10 and 9, when ur not even ready yet, use magic techniques and openers and you'll get them. Bullshit! half of the time it never works! so dont beleave that shit. go STEP BY STEP Try getting at a girl on your level and go out with her and practice having sex with her to improve your sex skills because you gotta know how to fuck in order to have a 10 coming around wanting more later when u get better girls. Start where your at then work yourself up like a ladder.

Now looks dont matter ive seen ugly dudes get way better females then the pretty boys lol. you just gotta dress good and fresh, have clean fresh shoes, teeth straight and white, clear all the pimples, be well groomed, hair done right, basically take care of yourself. If a girl sees that you're taking care of yourself, she will take care of you;) and she'll respect you for that.

some pretty boys use there looks as game. it works. but theres a whole lot more than just that. That aint shit.

Just try to get a girlfriend thats on your level just to experience it. So u can get that feeling out your way because the more longer you wait the more weirder youll get. lol
Author:  AFCPG [ Wed Jul 25, 2012 7:45 am ]
Post subject:  dsa
Dude ya right but even the girls which are on my level go for the same guy as the ones who are 9 s 10s.He is kinda 8 or 9
I mean in my social circle.
I can tell that girls 5,6,7-got even more confidence then 9s and 10s.
Its kinda screwed up.
and still I already got my role in my social circle...and its hard to change it...
Author:  Chillzz91 [ Wed Jul 25, 2012 5:01 pm ]
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Dude dont ever say a guy is a 9 or 10 it sounds femine you gotta get that out your head. Even girls dont think that way unless there immatue. Girls are emotionally wired you gotta get to there emotions and inside of there head. And check there asses when they give you shit. But what u need to do is find a new social circle or go out and hunt for women alone like a lonely wolf. Thats what I had to did because most of my friends are either gangsters or either had no game what so ever so I couldnt look up to them as wing man. I went to clubs alone, malls, everything I was hunting like a lonely wolf and got good results and met alot of good players and calaberated with them and learned alot of new stuff from them. Sometimes you gotta go your own route and ditch your own friends sometimes cuz they "WILL" hold you back. no lie.
Author:  media [ Wed Jul 25, 2012 9:50 pm ]
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Quote:
FIRST STEP OF CONFIDENCE MEANS "TRUSTING YOURSELF" BASICALLY!


SECOND VALUE YOUR MANHOOD THINK OF YOURSELF HIGHLY AS HELL! AINT NOTHING WRONG ABOUT FEELING HIGHLY AND HAVING HIGH STANDARDS. RAISE YOUR STANDARDS TO GET AT BETTER WOMEN INSTEAD OF THESE HOOD RATS. WHEN U START SAYING I AM THE SHIT! I AM PHYSICALLY THE SHIT, I LOOK LIKE THE SHIT, I TALK, WALK, AND DRESS LIKE THE SHIT, EVENTUALLY YOU'LL BECOME THE SHIT! LOL AND PEOPLE WILL START TREATING YOU LIKE YOU'S THE SHIT. AND GIRLS WILL VIBE THAT. THINK OF ALL THE CELEBRITIES LIKE RAPPERS AND STUFF LIKE THAT THEY SAY IM THE BEST RAPPER EVER WHEN SOME OF THEM ARE NOT BUT THEY THINK SO HIGHLY OF THEMSELVES THEY DONT EVEN GIVE A FUCK WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK OF THEM BECAUSE THEY KNOW IN THERE HEART THEY THAT THEY'RE THE SHIT! LOL JUST TRUST YOURSELF AND BELEAVE. EVERYTHINGS GONNA BE ALRIGHT MY BRO.
Lol...I love this Brother!! It's true...fuck it - Once you're the man in your own head, you're the man in everyone else's eyes! This is my new philosophy! I'm the fuckin' man, straight up and down!
Author:  Chillzz91 [ Wed Jul 25, 2012 11:58 pm ]
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Thanks Brotha! Not only in your mind but in your heart to brotha! But dont get too arrogant wit it. Keep reading books to open and expand that mind that opens up your third eye. And kick it wit some cool, intellectual folks so that vibe can rub off you. you dont wanna kick it wit some RSP dude and someone that aint got shit for themselves cuz you'll subconsciously start acting like them and your vibe WILL be fucked up. And girls feel that shit. So sometimes you gotta check your energy as well. Know your vibe and check that shit when it gets outta hand! :)
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