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| Author: | Speaker [ Sat Jan 10, 2009 2:08 am ] |
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Body Language Part 1 I will guarantee if you pull off what i am going to tell you properly, you will notice drastic improvements with absolutely any girl. Girls can vary so much in appearance and personality, but theres one thing that remains constant for every single girl, her instincts. Girls are instinctually programmed to respond emotionally to a man with positive body language. It shows hes confident, collected, emotionally stable, social and ultimately everything that triggers the image of high S&R value. The best way to learn about body language is by studying the professionals, and by this i mean rock stars. My favorite inspiration for body language is Bob Dylan. He exudes a sense that he just doesn't give a shit what anyone thinks. You need to portray that you have lots of friends, your happy, your confident, and nothing can ruin how your feeling. There are several ways to do this, but they must be used in parallel in order to be effective. The beauty of this is it doesnt matter what your style is, strong body language will remain constant. It must be remembered that body language doesnt start or stop when you enter or leave a bar. It has to become integrated into your everyday life. Im going to run first through ways in which you can convey strong body language and then things you can do every day to practice them. Ways to convey strong body language (no significant order) 1) Smile! if you are walking around even with a glint of a smile in your eye girls will pick up on it. It conveys that you dont need anything from them because with or without them your having a good time. 2) Push your chest forward and your shoulders back. This is one of the most important aspects of body language. This body position is very welcoming. It shows that you are confident and comfortable. One of the biggest mistakes guys make in a bar is that they have a very closed posture i.e crossing arms, not smiling, hunched over, leaning forward. These are all things you must avoid at any cost they will lower your value drastically. One thing you can do to see visualize this posture is put your palms on your ass while leaning slightly back. Then move your hands into a hanging position, congrats youve just become alpha. 3)Lean back. Whether you are standing in a group or sitting down leaning back is key. It conveys you are completely comfortable in the situation. Even if you are shitting yourself with nerves, if you lean back and get comfortable they will sense it and do the same. 4) Dont be too responsive. One major incongruent thing most guys learning body language do is they will react to things too much. If someone calls your name out from behind you, dont whip your head around like you heared gunshots. Wait about a second and then slowly turn just your head not your entire body, at this point if its one of friends turn and face them, if its a girl you are gaming keep your back to her and talk to her over your shoulder. 5)Maintain eye contact, never look at the ground. Shows you are confident and that you are not made easily uncomfortable. Looking at the ground is something people do because its safe. Throw safety out the door now you are going to be looking at whatever you want from now on even if you are walking alone at 3 in the morning never look at the sidewalk while you walk it exudes low value. Maintaining eye contact is one of those make or break things as well. You must train yourself to hold eye contact no matter how long or uncomfortable it is. Its so easy to look away so its such a hard habit to kick. Alot of the time you can even use it to open a girl in a bar. If you are walking through a crowd, you make eye contact with a girl, you hold it, hold it, hold it, (while smiling of course you dont wanna be a stalker), then you go up to her and you say *with cocky funny attitude* "well, what are you waiting for?" and playfully nudge her on the shoulder then stack to introduce me to your friends and onwards. This is a good opener because its rather direct but it must be done under the right conditions, with the right eye contact and body language. Because its direct you have to immediately start showing more interest in the obstacles immediately after or else you will convey too much interest. Those are some tips to get you started. Start practicing right now. Not when you get to the bar, it will be too late to start by the time you get to the clubs, body language is one part of your game you must do at all times. Here are some ways to gradually increase your confidence and body language while just walking down the street, in stores, absolutely anywhere you go where people are present. 1) In any area force yourself to maintain eye contact with people untill they look away this can range anywhere from 1-5 seconds usually. Huge IOI if the girl holds eye contact for more than 2-3 seconds. Do this with anyone, the HB10 walking down the street, the postman your friends, guys girls it doesnt matter. You gotta become comfortable with holding eye contact, look happy while you do it tho or else you will come off as offensive and hostile. 2) while walking on the sidewalk avoid moving drastically to avoid an oncoming collision. The person walking towards you has just as much a responsibility to get out of your way, remember that. A lot of people will go as far as walking off the sidewalk to avoid hitting someone. Its not such a bad thing to run into someone once in a while it shows that you are dominant and unnaffected by the presence of others. Try it, never move more than a foot left or right for someone, if you body language is solid enough people will sense your presence and get out of your way every time. |
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| Author: | Fireworks [ Mon Jan 12, 2009 1:02 am ] |
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Thanks so much for the tip! I especially liked the tip about eye contact. I'll try to smile and make eye contact with people more often, including the really hot babes. |
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| Author: | Speaker [ Mon Jan 12, 2009 1:16 am ] |
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glad to help man, for everyone out there if you are interested in this article and more you can visit my site. Weekly articles will be covering absolutely everything to get you the girl from opening to closing www.puaspeaker.blogspot.com |
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| Author: | Speaker [ Thu Dec 16, 2010 5:58 am ] |
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Been away for a while but i'm back. Check out my other threads for some awesome tips on body language and how to dress! Speaker |
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