Hey guys, I recently joined the forum, been here for a while reading posts and learning from the advice everybody gives. I've been incorporating a lot of the basic suggestions newbies are given, and have been working out for the past year or so regularly and have gotten a lot more muscular, which has done wonders for my inner game. At the same time I've upgraded my wardrobe, invested in a nice watch and cologne, and have worked on my sense of fashion.
I started flirting a lot more with girls recently and have gotten better at my verbal game and making conversation become sexual, but I'm still not exactly sure what constitutes sexual body language per se. I feel like it should be a mix of facial expressions and verbal language but I feel I'm missing a big chunk of it that I just don't get. I know about kino and have started trying it out in bits and pieces, but I'm still not fully confident in my ability to kino a girl. When I approach on the dance floor and start dancing with girls, I kino them a lot more confidently whether we're grinding or just dancing, but if it's not a setting where physical contact is expected (like a dance floor) I become shy.
Another big issue I have is this annoying head nod habit. For some reason, I developed this habit of nodding my head when listening to another person speak when in conversation, however its far more frequent than it should be in my opinion, and definitely detracts from the confident alpha body language I'm looking for. Anybody have any ideas how to break this annoying habit? It stems from this internal belief that I need to grant confirmation to the person I'm speaking with that I understood their point or that I am listening. I'm not sure how I can implement an internal process change to get rid of it, or to simply break it, because it's become ingrained into me quite a bit, and I feel fidgety if I just stare at them smiling without nodding anymore.
Thanks guys, appreciate the help.
tl;dr version: What exactly is sexual body language and how can I break a habit of nodding my head to every point someone makes(sometimes as often as 10-15 times a minute).
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