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PostPosted: Sun Jan 20, 2013 2:25 pm 
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Hey Guys,

Need some tips on body language at the bar, club bars are so annoying since you're crowded in like sheep waiting for a drink, how do you display good body language when the only real part of you showing is shoulders up?

Only thing I can think of is generic stuff like head up, shoulders back and don't let anyone in your "space" when being pushed about for space at the bar

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What would you look like when you are really into a good conversation with one of your friend?
What would you look like if you are looking after a hot chick to jump after?

If you can answer these questions you probably can have an amazing body language. ;)

And one more thing...

Look at the people in the bar, you can clearly see who are bored and who aren't. If you have a good sens of social intelligence, you know exactly which you should go first which you shouldn't go first.

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These two pictures pretty much sum it up. The main points to always keep in mind is that you want to be loose and relaxed with your shoulders upright and slightly tilted backwards. You're hands shouldn't ever cross the halfway point of your body, torso shouldn't always be open and, if you weren't wearing any pants, your junk would always be visible.


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Hey Guys,

Need some tips on body language at the bar, club bars are so annoying since you're crowded in like sheep waiting for a drink, how do you display good body language when the only real part of you showing is shoulders up?

Only thing I can think of is generic stuff like head up, shoulders back and don't let anyone in your "space" when being pushed about for space at the bar

Thanks,

Jake
If you'd like you can watch my full alpha video playlist in my signature (the combined hits are now at over 28k hits and over 100 likes).... Sorry for the long intro in the video this first series with that software. It goes over body language on every level.

Also here is an article I wrote on it. On that page is the full video put together as well.

Posture is essential
Consistency is essential
Symmetry is essential
Stance should be wide (unless you are a big guy in which case that could be threatening).
Comfort in your own skin
Wide relaxed shoulders
Open body language to make you more approachable
Smile -Lots don't agree but early in an interaction it is your most attractive face
Eye contact- The person who looks down first is the most submissive - Confident people tend to avoid it
Head high
Illustrators - They show charisma and take up space
Emphasize your masculinity as you move, there is a video that goes over movement in my video series
Bring attention to your crotch that isn't ridiculous but certainly masculine
When you are sitting down be sure to take up space extending your arms and feet if available

I want to re-emphasize GCplayer's point on being relaxed this is very necessary to being confident. Anxious people aren't considered confident, relaxed people who are comfortable in their own skin come across as confident. If you struggle with being relaxed look into meditation, working out, and healthy eating patterns.

That should be more than enough to get you started on good body language. I hope that is good enough, if you need more just ask.

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PostPosted: Tue Jan 22, 2013 11:49 pm 
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I want to re-emphasize GCplayer's point on being relaxed this is very necessary to being confident. Anxious people aren't considered confident, relaxed people who are comfortable in their own skin come across as confident. If you struggle with being relaxed look into meditation, working out, and healthy eating patterns.

That should be more than enough to get you started on good body language. I hope that is good enough, if you need more just ask.

Peace and Love,

Vic[/quote]

Thanks everyone who replied, this definitely helps, was good to see the posture from the photos and also the info from you Vic was interesting to listen to - i'd make a small suggestion if you haven't already done them (maybe you have in other videos and I haven't seen them yet) but possibly demonstrate as you teach, especially with regards to physical alpha body language as that would help us visualise when we're out sarging how to best use the knowledge.

The problem with replicating the poses in the photos at the bar is that everyone is crammed in every space trying to vie for the barmans attention to be served so being open and relaxed when 6 other people are pushing from behind you to get to that space next to you is difficult

Thanks again,

Jake


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Thanks everyone who replied, this definitely helps, was good to see the posture from the photos and also the info from you Vic was interesting to listen to - i'd make a small suggestion if you haven't already done them (maybe you have in other videos and I haven't seen them yet) but possibly demonstrate as you teach, especially with regards to physical alpha body language as that would help us visualise when we're out sarging how to best use the knowledge.

The problem with replicating the poses in the photos at the bar is that everyone is crammed in every space trying to vie for the barmans attention to be served so being open and relaxed when 6 other people are pushing from behind you to get to that space next to you is difficult

Thanks again,

Jake

Hey Jake,

I have to re-shoot this series, it has a lot of golden content but it was when I first got a camera, and software so I didn't have too much experience. I do plan to re-shoot it at some point this year. It may take a minute but I'll get it done. This next time I do it, there will be more examples of me performing the actions, along with movie clips, and pictures.

Thank you for the feedback, I really appreciate it, can't improve without feedback.

When it comes to getting the bartender's attention the easiest way to do it, is to put your forearm on the bar. Wait to make eye contact with them, smile, and say a good genuine "hey man how's it going?" or something like that. Don't put your money on the counter or your card to get their attention, you simply need to make eye contact, get acknowledgement, and create communication, those are the keys to everything. Squaring up your shoulders too directly can get to threatening.

I didn't use to know how or why I did it with ease but my friends all use to buy drinks for me simply because I could get drinks the fastest whenever I went to the bar. Your energy and aura needs to be attractive and attract attention, some of that is being friendly reaching out and making eye contact.

Peace and Love,

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PostPosted: Thu Mar 21, 2013 12:59 pm 
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How much do you want to know!?!

Start on Chapter 8 (scroll to the right with the bottom tab).

You will see the difference between dominant and submissive body language.

Hit Table of Contents to learn the rest!

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PostPosted: Fri Mar 22, 2013 11:16 am 
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How much do you want to know!?!

Start on Chapter 8 (scroll to the right with the bottom tab).

You will see the difference between dominant and submissive body language.

Hit Table of Contents to learn the rest!

Thanks man, really great link!


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How much do you want to know!?!

Start on Chapter 8 (scroll to the right with the bottom tab).

You will see the difference between dominant and submissive body language.

Hit Table of Contents to learn the rest!

Chris I started skimming your book man, good shit.. I enjoyed what I had read immensely good to see another body language lover around.

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Thanks, I wrote the big book, 300 pages, a while ago, but life got in the way, now it's all free so enjoy. Got some more stuff planned. The dictionary is going to get a big overhaul over the next few months to be expanded.

Just happy to help, hated having such a big unfinished project at the back of my mind for so long :)

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