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Hey Guys,
Need some tips on body language at the bar, club bars are so annoying since you're crowded in like sheep waiting for a drink, how do you display good body language when the only real part of you showing is shoulders up?
Only thing I can think of is generic stuff like head up, shoulders back and don't let anyone in your "space" when being pushed about for space at the bar
Thanks,
Jake
If you'd like you can watch my full alpha video playlist in my signature (the combined hits are now at over 28k hits and over 100 likes).... Sorry for the long intro in the video this first series with that software. It goes over body language on every level.
Also here is an article I wrote on it. On that page is the full video put together as well.
Posture is essential
Consistency is essential
Symmetry is essential
Stance should be wide (unless you are a big guy in which case that could be threatening).
Comfort in your own skin
Wide relaxed shoulders
Open body language to make you more approachable
Smile -Lots don't agree but early in an interaction it is your most attractive face
Eye contact- The person who looks down first is the most submissive - Confident people tend to avoid it
Head high
Illustrators - They show charisma and take up space
Emphasize your masculinity as you move, there is a video that goes over movement in my video series
Bring attention to your crotch that isn't ridiculous but certainly masculine
When you are sitting down be sure to take up space extending your arms and feet if available
I want to re-emphasize GCplayer's point on being relaxed this is very necessary to being confident. Anxious people aren't considered confident, relaxed people who are comfortable in their own skin come across as confident. If you struggle with being relaxed look into meditation, working out, and healthy eating patterns.
That should be more than enough to get you started on good body language. I hope that is good enough, if you need more just ask.
Peace and Love,
Vic
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