I'm reading a book on body language, and there's some points from the book about gazing that I'd like to add (I haven't validated them for myself yet, however they are supposedly based on empirical studies):
1) Social gaze: Your eyes essentially focus on the triangle formed by the eyes and mouth of the person you are interacting with. Supposed to create comfort.
2) Intimate gaze: Your eyes focus on the eyes of the person you are interacting with, but also drop down her body to her breasts (if she's close) or down to her crotch (if she's not that close). The looks down should be a glance (versus a stare) and then back to her eyes. I'd think it's fine to combine social gazing and intimate gazing...maybe start with social and make it more intimate as she gains your approval?
3) Assertive/aggressive gaze: This gaze focuses on the triangle made by the eyes and a spot on the forehead of the person you are interacting with. According to the book, it sends a clear subconscious message that "I outrank you", and should not be used in friendly situations. The book suggests using this gaze to cause a boring yapper to immediately shut-up...I'd think it would probably be good to send a somewhat belligerant AMOG packing as well?
One other book (called "How to Make Anyone Fall In Love With You") suggests staring into a woman's eyes while you talk or listen, and holding that gaze after you or she has stopped talking...in other words, hold the gaze too long. According to the book, holding the gaze after speaking/listening in particular triggers the release of some "in love" chemicals in her brain. Supposedly, this effect is based on empirical studies.
Sounds like u got some pretty good books there. But using e aggressive stare on an AMOG mite not b a good idea, will prob end up being thumped. Try using Mystery's advice, turn n work e set against him(esp e girls) & start making him qualify himself. This wil make him look needy n attention seeking while u'l look alpha.
Also, here's another stare dat can b used 2 turn e heat up on ur woman. Like e aggressive stare, its also a triangle, but dis triangle is made by the eyes n mouth. Use a soft gaze, look from one eye to another, then to e mouth & back to e eye again. Best used when ur faces r slightly apart (like jus b4 kissing).
For kiss close: after triangle gazing, slowly drop ur gaze to her mouth, then lean in n kiss.