Take up space! This is 100% Alpha. Look at a pride of Lions. The Alpha has huge space of his own. Nobody is allowed in the Alphas radius unless he permits it.
When sitting at the bar: scoot your seat, lean back, spread your arms on the table, lean to the side. Establish your Alpha space where only you allow who comes inside. Most of all: this space is your space! You do not appear to conform to anyone in your Alpha space.
I use to question the effectiveness of this, but it works. Women begin to notice it, and this kind of posture keeps you more relaxed with lower, more calm vocal inflections as well.
Women will eventually start staring at your package (if it's stare-worthy, lol), and begin to gravitate towards you.
Take a look at all the shouty, scrunched-up guys at the bar and their pack of feeble frat boy pals for further evidence.
The other night, I had the good fortune of having extremely raunchy sex with my gf and her friend. They invited me out, asked if I wanted to go to a restaurant with them. I did. I employed this sitting style, and also employed the 30-70% talk ratio rule (which I will use to ramp up attraction), which at this point is mostly natural for me. They were just having a kick ass time talking amongst themselves and occasionally asking me a question and laughing. I was not hyper or talkative, just chill.
We go back to my place, and they're holding hands at the table. I'm leaning back in my kitchen chair, and they ask me to grab my camera for some nice pictures. I do, and about 15 frames in I ask them to kiss, but they refuse and say they want to go bowling.
I don't react at all.
"Oh Arch, we'll come back, maybe, hahhaha".
I say nothing, but I do go bowling with them. Again I employ the "take up space" rule, and don't talk much. When I do it's low key, always positive or teasing.They're having a blast, dancing, drinking. They look at me and play with their hair, adjust their shirts, etc. Then my gf whispers in my ear "she wants you tonight."
After one frame, we pack up without me saying a word. I still don't talk while they chatter away. We get to my place, and they head upstairs, shut the door, and laugh. I don't react. Two minutes later they open it, naked, and then tear my clothes down.
There's something to be said for some of these rules. And when you get good enough, you can feel when it turns from "you chase" to "they chase", and then all you have to do is just show up.
I see a lot of self-proclaimed PUA guys talking away like chatter boxes with women, hovering over them and trying to convince them through canned lines. It's extremely feminine.
A man let's his physique and his demeanor speak for him most of the time.