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PostPosted: Fri Nov 29, 2013 9:30 am 
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Hey all mates, I am student and there's one problem about my life, i'm confident enough to talk with unknown girls, go to clubs and etc., but I do not know how to have friends circle, like others have, I want to have about 4 friends which know each other and with whom I can do something interesting day to day, in school I wasn't communicative, didn't have good friends, but now as i'm confident I just don't know how to make it happen, I know only some guys, but I don't meet with them a lot, have one guy with whom I going to clubs-wingman, but really really i'm not enjoying my situation, maybe someone could offer me some ideas about it?


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PostPosted: Sun Dec 01, 2013 12:02 am 
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Ah, this happens to a lot of guys.
Just start doing stuff other than gaming chicks. Work out, take a recreational class at a community college, join an improv group, or whatever floats your boat. And then just start talking to someone that seems alright. Just be cool and try not to overthink things. Ask to hang out sometime. Guys are usually way easier to befriend than girls are.

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PostPosted: Mon Dec 02, 2013 3:05 am 
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I feel you man, it's tough especially being a freshman at a new university.

The easiest place but not the best place is the classroom. You can talk to the person beside you and grab their number -- ofcourse after you talk to them in class and build a rapport y'know. Join clubs and interact with everyone.

I could go on forever on how to make new friends. It's all really basic it just takes a bit of luck, patience, and effort.

After you've acquired a group of friends, whether or not they are all know each other. Plan an event and go out. Sometimes as I'm talking with my new friends I'll say to them "Oh I was just talking about that with my friend, you gotta meet him". The real tricky part is finding friends whom you truly get along with, and that you vibe with. It's tough differentiating acquaintances versus friends.

We are on the same boat, but this is what I have learned thus far.


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PostPosted: Sat Jan 04, 2014 7:48 am 
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I can understand that. Especially popular guys, who draw women to them like magnets, are nearly as hard to get a hold on to as HBs, since they have tons of friends and already hang out in larger groups.

Like mentioned above, how about you try finding someone suitable who has one or two interests like you. Then, if his social circle is suiting you (check pictures or ask what they always do), casually ask whether you could join them or make him offer it to you somehow (You are the PUA in the end ;)).

Usually, guys will be flattered and will probably agree, if he likes you. It's funny because gaming women compared to men is like professional football compared to elementary school football. They've never experienced people hitting on them for a selfish reason, they will see it as compliments ;)

But beware of female groups. In my experience there tends to be a lot of jealousy and hate when confronted with a talented PUA. That group will fall apart and you will just have a few lays instead of getting a great new social circle ;) Try hanging out with multiple guys with couples included where dating the females is off limit


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