That guy who dated the hottest girl in the school is a Natural, you can easily recognise him by the way he moves, the way he talks. It's like if he was surrounded by a comfort zone and everyone that enter in this one is immediately hypnotized by his words. Have you ever had this feeling watching an alpha male?
So, set this point, we have to see where you can start: i think that it wouldn't be useful at all if you went out sarging in this right moment without a great inner game. You could have the best openers, the best routines, the best canned material, but if you don't look confident, you won't get the girl.
Starting to the basics you should build an attractive you, how? It's sad to say, but it's undeniable that the world judges us firstly for how we appear and then for what we think. Your body is the temple of your soul, so start working out and get a fit body. This will give you a great help and your inner game will become better, no doubt about it. You will ever ever ever have a good aspect, not like if you was going to the disco, but stay in order, maybe you could buy a good parfume, and some clothes which exalt your body without spending a lot of money. You never know, some trains pass only once.
So, this is a great first step, now you look better, and you will be easier noted by girls, what does it mean? Less work for you!
The second part is the hardest: imagine you to jump by a plane, under you, it's just air and the see. The first time will be scaring as ****, and also the second one… but after 100 times you will feel confident, it won't scare you anymore. The same thing is for approach, once you will be confident you will reach a high level of inner game. You will not be confident only with woman, also with your chief, with your friends, you will be in control of most aspects of your daily life, and this situation will increase again your inner game, and the value in front of people, in front of girls, people will see you as a leader, the alpha male you were talking about!!
The last but not the list advice is: don't become too much cocky, always keep your mind open, learn from others, share opinions and feelings, be kind with everyone and don't lose your sense of rationality. Ok, follow your instinct is good, but not always!
Oh, i forgot… don't use routines, and openers, i think they eliminate our fantasy and most important, your personality! If you have questions, just ask me!
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