Traveller field report.
Firstly, this post is not really a field report. Just some thoughts on getting laid while traveling. Let's make it a discussion. So mates, post your stories and thoughts.
Firstly talk a little bit abt myself and my travel. Am a student in melb currently 19. (age is one of my big drawback). I spent a week traveling in Sydney in novber and 41 days in Japan. Am still in Japan right now. holiday in Sydney was an ordinary beach holiday, a chilled out holiday. Did some crazy shit in Japan. I walked from Osaka to mount fuiji which took me about 35 dys. (400k's)(the trip in Japan wasn't sex focused)
1) where to meet people and potential sex partners.
- your hostel is a big resource.
I would say that the money I paid for hostel isn't simply for the room(since I don't mind sleeping in Mc which I did frequently) but for opportunities to meet people. I would like to rate a hostel five stars if there are interesting people live there (crucial for those who travel alone). So, don't waste this big big resource.
- couch surfing.
Good for those who travel alone and want to meet locals. But seriously you can't count on people to reply you in time. So, not so truthworthy.
- pub, bar, club.
Well, if you are traveling alone, approaching people in pubs is sometimes only choice you have. But well, this requires you at least have some good games or otherwise it would be hard for you to approach people while your alone. (yh, it's all about confidence).
2) things you should avoid
- Judging by my experience, if you rly wanna get laid while traveling, you'd better stick with one place for a little while. I was walking the whole month in Japan since it was my intention to reach mount fuji from Osaca. What I realized is that there were so many pitential chances that I had on my way. But I had my mission for which I had no chance but to pass on those sweethearts. Really. Give an example. It was on my way from Osaka to a city called Nara. Basically it would take 10 hrs to reach Nara. It was in the middle of the day, I was tired after walking for 20 k's' with no rests. I decided to take a rest and have lunch. I met this waitress in the restaurant. Well, my face is deceiving. I have a background of Chinese so pretty much I fit in the picture in Japan and people though that I was a Japanese. Later on she found out that im not a Japanese and showed some interests. The game was on! We talked for 30 mins (kinda flirting, can't push too far since she was on duty) after which I had to leave to continue walking. There was no chance for us to meet again. This potential story came to an end (she's smoking hot!). likewise, I missed so many chances like that. It was not a choice. (I was proud of myself to some certain extents that I had a strong will
).
- also, dont change your hostel frequently, it's just a waste of time and energy.
- Hostels or Hotels?
if you travel alone and expect to meet people and currently have no friend around the area then why not choose to stay in a hostel instead of expensive hotel ? You also can save up some money for drinks.
3) Thoughts on traveling alone.
- Traveling alone could be good also could be tough at the same time. Traveling alone means you won't be hold back by your stupid buddys and ain't no body's gonna put you down. At the mean time, you have to face the fact that you have to approach sets alone, vist some bars alone at some nights and ain't nobody gonna cheer you up when you are down. (especially for a long term travel like my 41 days in japan). (emotional probelms). Have that being said, traveling alone definitely makes a man tough!!
-choose your wing man wisely. While your traveling alone, your gonna meet lots of guys and you probably would choose to go out clubbing with them. Keep in mind, people you meet while traveling could be AFCs and know nothing abt the game. So don't be suprised if your new "wing man" turns out to be a huge cock block.
4) some other thoughts.
Getting laid while traveling is not easy but possible. Traveling itself is an adventure so don't let pussy things bother you too much. Enjoy your trip is the first thing.
That's my stories and thoughts on getting laid while traveling. Boys, feel free to share your stories here. Let us improve our game.