One of my best friends who is a wing that I'm training is bipolar. He is a natural, but lost his game between graduating high school and college due to some serious personal trauma. He's been bipolar as long as I've known him.
He just recently crashed. A chick online tricked him into giving her money. We all told him it was a scam. He didn't listen. So he drove to Jersey (5 states away from home) and didn't tell anyone.
He took his dog with to show off to her. He doesn't have a job or money. He doesn't have a cell phone. His mom called me looking for him cuz I was the last person to see him, and last time he got lost he ended up in the hood getting robbed. So we went looking for him in the hood with the cops.
Turned out he ended up getting to Jersey on the little money he had. He found out the address the girl gave him was a fake address, and he had a melt down. He was stranded for a day. The cops found him and his folks had to wire him money so he could drive home. It was about $600.
When he got back he was really depressed and looking bad. That's when I started training him. He was finally humble enough to listen to me, and had seen the changes in my life, so he wanted in. I think the best way to get over a girl is to find another, so we got started right away. I've been training him for 2 weeks almost every day, and he's almost starting to get better than me. I gotta say, I'm proud of him.
Still he needs alot of extra help with all of this. I know it's going to be a real long term thing for both of us. He's down for it, so I am too. I can't wait to see the day when the guy who got picked on and called a "retard" his whole life is getting pussy like Mystery!
He also has some form of mental retardation. He pretty much has the mind of a 12 year old in a 30 year old body. I don't know what the disorder is because I never asked out of respect, but it's obvious to everyone he's not just bipolar. I only know about the bipolar because he confided in me once about it. I think he has severe ADHD as well as his severe bipolar.
He's on meds, but they really fuck up his head. He gets tired and dizzy all the time and says he has heart problems and breathing problems.
Like i said, he's an ex-natural. In high school he dated 30 women and fucked 3 of them. Now, he has had no dates up until this year when I started training him. I was the opposite. I had no game in high school. Now I fuck strippers (for free lol).
I love this guy like a brother. We've been friends since I was 16 and he was 18. What can I do to help him, not just with his game, but with his life? I have ADHD and depression, so I can relate a bit to the mental illness he has, but his is really severe. It makes it really hard for him to be taught stuff. I'm working on teaching him some simple NLP to use on himself and some meditation techniques. What do you guys think I can do to help him?
You guys are awesome for bringing this up and being willing to talk about it. I know it's a really private and personal thing. Mad respect for you all!
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I'm happy for him. It was the first one without a wing. He's getting better at game every day. I think he can overcome his mental issues.