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| Author: | king0s [ Thu Mar 24, 2011 9:57 am ] |
| Post subject: | Being myself |
My friend is a Tall, rich guy. He is very alpha and he buys women stuff but not in an AFC way he does the "buying for girls" thing in an alpha way and he organises people in a very good way. On the other hand, I am a confident, cocky, funny, person when i'm around with my guy friends, but i start acting different when i'm with women. But i try my best not to look uncomfortable or AFC.. Even though i know wat to say to women I am not able to say it.. I get the feeling like if I say this they may try to make me look like an ass.. I know that i should not care what others think, but focus on wat produces result. I want u guys to tell me some EXERCISES or practice ideas which will help me to act as MYSELF(as confident, cocky and funny as I'm with my guy friends)... I want to improve!!! |
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| Author: | Don Suave [ Fri Mar 25, 2011 12:44 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Being myself |
Quote: My friend is a Tall, rich guy. He is very alpha and he buys women stuff but not in an AFC way he does the "buying for girls" thing in an alpha way and he organises people in a very good way. On the other hand, I am a confident, cocky, funny, person when i'm around with my guy friends, but i start acting different when i'm with women. But i try my best not to look uncomfortable or AFC.. Even though i know wat to say to women I am not able to say it.. I get the feeling like if I say this they may try to make me look like an ass..
Well maybe you should ask yourself why are you different when you're around women.I know that i should not care what others think, but focus on wat produces result. I want u guys to tell me some EXERCISES or practice ideas which will help me to act as MYSELF(as confident, cocky and funny as I'm with my guy friends)... I want to improve!!! And what does your friend has to do in the conversation? Do you envy him in someway? A good way to improve around women is to be around women more. Exposure usually diminishes fear... When you're around hot girls all the time, it's normal for you, so you're being yourself all the time; and all of that AFC shh.... is a only a bad memory which you'll probably never think about |
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| Author: | king0s [ Fri Mar 25, 2011 2:23 pm ] |
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I just start overanalyzing things.. I was wondering if the community can give me some guidelines on how to kill this "overanalyzing" thing.. just letting it go and being cool and confident.. techniques exercises? |
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| Author: | IvanDyn [ Mon Mar 28, 2011 7:07 pm ] |
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This is a common theme for many guys. Reasons can be different. Personally what has helped me overcome this issue was a kong process of self-acceptance. In my case I had some deeply stuck patterns that I developed over my childhood, that originated from the relationship with my mother. This is probably the most important relationship for guys when it come to dealing with women. I'd say the most important process is to become AWARE of what's going on in your head when you talk to girls. Don't analyze this. Don;t dwell on it, just hear the voice and act anyway. Practice becoming present (like meditation), get from your head into your body. FEEL the feelings that come when you talk to girls (as opposed to analyze them). Practice this and in time you will be much calmer. hope this helps. |
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