PUA Forum :: The importance of LEADING and what you should do

The reason many relationships break up is because the guy becomes too feminine!

He starts to become indecisive

E.g.
Female - "where should we go tonight?"

Male - "um I don't know, where do you want to go?"

This is bad, instead he should have said "we are going to..."

As the male you have to be making the decisions, where to go, what to do etc

Good example I heard from Captian Jack was even if shes asking you which earrings she should wear you make the decisions for her

"I like those better, they both look good on you but I like those better with that dress"

Females are by nature INDECISIVE

Males are Decision makers

I also believe that compromise is important. It's when it comes to the crunch is when the man should take the lead. I think girls are attracted to the guys who can stand up for themselves when they have to, not just when they are comfortable.
Al

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this. that super controlling shit is gonna turn a girl off if she even kinda has her head on straight.

Author:	ramlives [ Sun Mar 13, 2011 7:42 pm ]
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The reason many relationships break up is because the guy becomes too feminine! He starts to become indecisive E.g. Female - "where should we go tonight?" Male - "um I don't know, where do you want to go?" This is bad, instead he should have said "we are going to..." As the male you have to be making the decisions, where to go, what to do etc Good example I heard from Captian Jack was even if shes asking you which earrings she should wear you make the decisions for her "I like those better, they both look good on you but I like those better with that dress" Females are by nature INDECISIVE Males are Decision makers

Author:	CourageGym [ Sat Apr 09, 2011 5:25 am ]
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AGREE! Its the stupid media that brainwashes guys to think we must let the girls make decisions. Girls see that on TV and think they want it as well, but when they really get a guy they can control, they feel disgusted with him. Thats why relationships fail...

Author:	poeticlyskuac [ Sat Apr 09, 2011 7:09 am ]
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Quote: The reason many relationships break up is because the guy becomes too feminine! He starts to become indecisive E.g. Female - "where should we go tonight?" Male - "um I don't know, where do you want to go?" This is bad, instead he should have said "we are going to..." As the male you have to be making the decisions, where to go, what to do etc Good example I heard from Captian Jack was even if shes asking you which earrings she should wear you make the decisions for her "I like those better, they both look good on you but I like those better with that dress" Females are by nature INDECISIVE Males are Decision makers Be a Decisive Man, but be a Considerate man. Females aren't always indecisive. That depends on the women. Just like decisive man depends on the man. Each person is their own person and should be judged accordingly. Relationships fail because of compromise. One person doesn't compromise enough, while the other over compromises. This is a problem in every relationship, even good ones. The difference is the good ones see their partners imperfections as perfections (paraphrasing a quote). A healthy relationship has great compromise (consideration). Women don't want all of their decisions made, they don't want none of their decisions made. There has to be proper balance, caring, and consideration involved in your decision.

Author:	afcAL [ Sun Apr 10, 2011 11:58 pm ]
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I also believe that compromise is important. It's when it comes to the crunch is when the man should take the lead. I think girls are attracted to the guys who can stand up for themselves when they have to, not just when they are comfortable. Al

Author:	Stirlee [ Tue Apr 12, 2011 12:30 am ]
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Quote: I also believe that compromise is important. It's when it comes to the crunch is when the man should take the lead. I think girls are attracted to the guys who can stand up for themselves when they have to, not just when they are comfortable. Al this. that super controlling shit is gonna turn a girl off if she even kinda has her head on straight.

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Author:	Divello [ Wed Apr 13, 2011 12:11 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: I also believe that compromise is important. It's when it comes to the crunch is when the man should take the lead. I think girls are attracted to the guys who can stand up for themselves when they have to, not just when they are comfortable. Al this. that super controlling shit is gonna turn a girl off if she even kinda has her head on straight. Yes that's right, you don't wanna lead like dictator but just in a sutler way that is attractive, she has to lead as well sometimes if you have a relationship but in the club its all about you leading. Posted a article about that in my blog, check it out

Author:	afcAL [ Wed Apr 13, 2011 3:30 pm ]
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I guess i should elaborate . I was referring to the core values of the man. Girls can sense when a guy is putting up a show just to appear tough, cocky funny etc. Even if you have a solid routine, after the first few dates she will find out what you are really made of. She will know if you can stand your own or if she can walk all over you. The OP was referring to feminine guys, who can be meek. The way those guys handle problems is a direct indicator of their core values (which, again, women can sense). An excellent quote by Marting Luther King Jr sums it up pretty well "The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience,but where he stands at times of challenge" In a nutshell, you want a girl to sense the security in the opinion of an alpha male, as opposed to an afc throwing something in the table and hoeing it will not get challenged. I guess I see how my last post could be misinterpreted. I'm having trouble explaining it right now, let alone in 2 sentences Hope this makes sense, Al

Author:	ramlives [ Thu Apr 28, 2011 9:14 pm ]
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Ok being that this is my post let just make things clear being the some people only see things in extreme black or extreme white in this community offcourse you have to be flexible offcourse there must be compromise you are not ordering her like a dictator or are you trying to rule her life and control it offcourse not all women are the same, some are extremely head strong and some will fallow at the drop of a hat in general most women will look to you to lead, saying that doesn't mean that they will not take the stearing wheel herself just don't be a pussy and expect her to make the majority of the decisions what you are doing by leading is making suggestions or giving opinions for her to fallow, she'll either say yes or no/agree or disagree but do not let her control you and do not try to control her hope this clears things up as a few people seem to have takin the original post way out of context but thats more my fault than theres just fuckin get out there do this shit in real life and get the fuck of these forums, ramlives signing out for good

Author:	sheps [ Sat May 28, 2011 10:57 pm ]
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sigh wish i would have found this community before my relationship fell apart

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