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Author:  thrilladelic [ Mon Nov 22, 2010 1:05 pm ]
Post subject:  is it possible to be direct/natural with a stripper??
i love strippers bodywise.I just can't use routine and stuff like that. im a no bullshit guy... you guys have any ideas on how to approach a stripper and let her know i want her ???
Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Mon Nov 22, 2010 2:30 pm ]
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Strippers are probably the hardest of the hired guns. They require more of a gameplan and some technique. Here's your basic strategy.

1. Go during the week - they'll have more time to talk and won't worry so much about losing money by engaging with you

2. Make friends with the staff, e.g. manager, barstaff, bouncers, etc. This gives you social proof.

3. Don't sit in "pervert's row" by the stage. Sit off to one side with an empty chair next to you. Try and be just hanging out with a few guys or maybe some girls too (helps if you can)

4. Open indirectly and get her to sit down in the chair next to you. Don't let her sit on your lap or anything, and don't buy a dance. (This is the only time when too much kino too soon can actually be to your disadvantage.)

5. Be fun and interesting and different. If you can DHV through displaying knowledge about her, her industry, e.g. a stripper ex-girlfriend, then this is good. Basically show her you "get it." If you can get her laughing and move quickly into qualification and comfort, you can drop in things like "don't take this the wrong way, but I bet you're one of those girls that attracts the wrong kind of guy a lot of the time" which can go into a discussion about people judging her based on her looks or what she does rather than on the person she is. Keep the focus of the conversation away from work-related topics. NEVER be judgemental about what she does for a living (obviously!) End with "well listen I don't want to keep you from making a few bucks but I'd love to continue this conversation, so let's exchange contact info and hang out when you're off."
Author:  thrilladelic [ Mon Nov 22, 2010 2:39 pm ]
Post subject:  thanks!
thanks a lot man! really appreciated. also do you have some tips about direct game at the mall? ive been at the mall and tried direct game such as ''i saw you and tought you looked amazing can i talk to you? it worked.. i believe in mode one (saying whats on my mind) i just wanna know if you have experience with direct game that could help me..I just can't pretend or lie to women because when i do i get nervous..

thanks !
Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Mon Nov 22, 2010 2:53 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: thanks!
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thanks a lot man! really appreciated. also do you have some tips about direct game at the mall? ive been at the mall and tried direct game such as ''i saw you and tought you looked amazing can i talk to you? it worked.. i believe in mode one (saying whats on my mind) i just wanna know if you have experience with direct game that could help me..I just can't pretend or lie to women because when i do i get nervous..

thanks !
You don't have to lie! I never do.

It's totally cool to open with a compliment in daygame, because they're not expecting it. I'm glad you're trying it out. You can say they look amazing, or you like something they're wearing, or something like that, but I wouldn't say "can I talk to you?" because that's asking permission, which is not confident. Instead, try opening with your compliment and then say that you had to come over to find out more about them. That way you're saying that something about them piqued your interest, and now you want to know about them as a PERSON. You're basically straight into qualification, and you're displaying a great deal of confidence, and showing that you are unphased by beauty alone and look for a woman with certain character traits before she meets your standards. Confident man with standards = alpha man :-)
Author:  thrilladelic [ Mon Nov 22, 2010 3:17 pm ]
Post subject:  thanks a lot again
thanks a lot again!

how would you use body language in that situation. ?? start with the eyes ?? look for ioi?
Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Mon Nov 22, 2010 3:44 pm ]
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You don't have to wait for an IOI or eye contact because often she won't notice you, or she's walking away from you. Just go up, get her attention, and when you deliver the opener, do it with confident body language, chest forward, shoulders back, good voice tonality, with a SMILE, and make eye contact with her and hold it. When you're standing with her talking, don't stand facing directly at her | | , but instead stand in a v-shape \ / . This enables you to KINO more naturally with the side of the body closest to her.
Author:  thrilladelic [ Mon Nov 22, 2010 3:46 pm ]
Post subject:  perfect
perfect thanks a lot man i will definitly try it out!
Author:  Caylon [ Mon Nov 29, 2010 4:05 am ]
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would you suggest that if u have plans on sargin a stripper then u should get into the mindset of really not wanting her at all. just go in and start a conversation with her almost like ur talking to somebody to just pass the time but at the same time DHVing and stuff like that?
Author:  seins345 [ Tue Nov 30, 2010 12:27 am ]
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the question here is "is it possible not to be direct/natural with a stripper?? " seriously bro, if you go to a strip club its because you wanna get some stripper ass, i dont think strippers are that retarded to think you go to a strip club just because you like the place, theyre not idiot, they know you want ass, if you go like "you are not that hot" you will only look like an asshole who doesnt have interactions with women often.

Just say to them, i dont have money see im a vagabond but i think you are beutiful and want u to go with me to my place, so deal? : ) with a nice smile, if they want the will go, if they not, you need to pay for that ass ... but think like this, if u get a girlfriend u need to feed, buy crap etc to them to get sex, but this is waaay faster and sometimes cheaper, so no problem.
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