Just speak with him about it! And basically ask he stops it
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| Author: | Cobra45 [ Sun Jul 19, 2009 9:52 am ] |
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Hey everyone. Sorry, I'm a little pissed right now. I just left a party because I was pissed that my friend cock blocked me twice tonight. The first time was not too big of a deal because I was in a very public setting, but the second time I had the girl isolated and he just sat directly between us. I mean, obviously he isn't going to get anywhere with her, but this was literally the HOTTEST girl I have seen for at least six months and I already had my game flowing. He just butted in, sat down, and started asking AFC questions and pissed me off. After about 5 minutes I realized he wasn't going to leave, so I just called it a lost sale. It wasn't a normal scene. I made myself sound more interesting than her guy friend who was there at first, and he left, so I isolated my target. But she was a conservative Mormon and was on the other couch so kino was not really in the picture until I had gained her trust enough to get her to sit by me. Just before I was going to get her to sit by me though my friend sat directly between us. I knew in my heart how to game her perfectly, but not when my friend divided us, asking about our current convo, and acting like a crutch to my game. This girl was GOLDEN! 10/10. I had her if only I had nobody interfering! And the hardest target at that. A virgin Mormon! How do I stop a friend form cock-blocking? Obviously he's not a gamer, but still, I'm sooo pissed right now! AGH!!! |
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| Author: | SirSlick [ Sun Jul 19, 2009 6:28 pm ] |
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Be assertive and tell him about it. Let him know next time something like this happens that you don't appreciate him fucking up your game. If he then does it again, just don't go out with him to meet girls. You can still hangout with him to do other things, just don't go meet girls with him. Just don't get passive aggressive. |
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| Author: | Exerio [ Sun Jul 19, 2009 9:34 pm ] |
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Haha, this reminded me on friday night out actually. Been in comfort with a girl for 4 hours when my friend pulls here away and said: He: He has a girlfriend. Her: WHAT!? the fun thing is that I don't have a girlfriend. That's why jealousy is a bad thing and I've learned who to not bring to that scene in the future^^ |
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| Author: | wolf101 [ Mon Jul 20, 2009 12:37 pm ] |
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it happened to me but my friend was drunk and ruined my chances not only When is was opening but also meant at the night ended to early as we had to take him home. i would say ether get him into a game which is what i did with one of my friends (this helps with sharing resources) that would help as you get a wing man who can deal with the friends of the hb or as was said before tell him that you ruined my chances by being a thrid wheel the thrid opinion is don`t go sugreing when he is with you and serge at different times |
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| Author: | Mike Lowrey [ Mon Jul 20, 2009 2:31 pm ] |
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Just speak with him about it! And basically ask he stops it
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| Author: | SFL [ Tue Jul 21, 2009 6:46 pm ] |
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first all you-re men!! Act like that! If your friend threat you like that its because you do nothing! Create your rules and respect then!! |
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| Author: | Alpha Epsilon [ Sun Jul 26, 2009 10:53 pm ] |
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Yeah ive met alot of guys who have done this to me, alot of *semester friends* who are actually only out for self gain. Once at this party i was with my gf stood around talking and kinda making out etc, and then this fucking guy comes over and starts to talk to me! whilst my gf is next to me, then he kinda wins me over and begins to talk to her and then created like a 3 way convo. This was a few months before i discoverd the Game, and looking back at this i should have told him where the fuck to go lol. But then i kinda gave in and let it happen being a nice guy or something, i guess he was "disarming me" and i didnt know it. The thing is, with your *close* friends who dont know about "game", they try and put each other down to build themselves up rather than help each other out. Me and my mates have a tripod system, where we help each other out, if one breaks we all break kinda thing haha and we all get girls because we help each other opening etc. Therefore when im back at university i shall be introducing more of my new *close friends* to PUA. I think with guys you know who may cockblock you, the best medicine is to introduce them to PUA, and then make them allies haha. |
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| Author: | ODB36 [ Thu Jul 30, 2009 1:30 pm ] |
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In this situation you should handle your friends sneaky interaction against him....I mean when he sat between you and the SHB you should tell him "Hey man we were just having a talk with the girl and you interrupted us" or "Man u're drunk...go party"and then give him one elbow to the ribs and the look "Get the fuck out!" and if he don't leave tell him "Man im trying to do something with this girl leave us alone for a moment" and if he still didn't listen to you...fuck him out! thats i would do in this situation. And remember DTA (dont trust anybody)
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| Author: | erikose [ Sun Aug 02, 2009 6:36 am ] |
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Remember that whatever happens, do not let this event affect you internally. Always be outcome independent and have the abundance mindset. Explain the situation with your friend but keep remembering that there are plenty of 9s and 10s out there and that your state should not be affected by the outcome. This is one of the core principles of natural game. |
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| Author: | DontBeFickle [ Mon Aug 03, 2009 6:42 pm ] |
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Alpha Epsilon The thing is, with your *close* friends who dont know about "game", they try and put each other down to build themselves up rather than help each other out. Me and my mates have a tripod system, where we help each other out, if one breaks we all break kinda thing haha and we all get girls because we help each other opening etc. dont know how to quote or i would... this is so amazingly true. i have a few friends like this, one with pretty good game...well, inner game. cockiest fuck youve ever met. but all he will do is put you down infront of girls. always out for self gain, never helpping... |
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