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"I always had with my game is not realizing that girls are hitting on me/giving out obvious hints and signals, until its too late, probably a result of a self esteem problem that I finally managed to fix completely. I figured the only way to make myself better at noticing that shit in the future is to analyze past mistakes"
It sounds like your problem is low self-esteem, not that you're not noticing the signs. You prolly do notice most of the signs and think of a reason for why they are not an IOI.
If a girl shows interest (she talks to you) and/or gets touchy feely = she's usually interested.
Better to give it a try and use some of this PUA game on her then to be posting on this PUA forum later about missed opportunities. So what if you crash and burn? We all do at some point. The girl won't remember you in 5 minutes anyways when she's talking to the next guy and you won't remember her when you're gaming the next girl.
thanks bro but i pretty much got rid of my self esteem problem. i did have low self esteem for years so im still not used to trying to notice the shit that i was 100% unable to notice back then.
the only reason for posting this is i think that analyzing shit from the past can help me notice those IOIs on time in future interactions.