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I just want to address these three points that you made:
1. RSD is all about being "in state" also known as social god mode. Have you ever been the life of the party? You can approach anyone and say whatever you want to say. You're right, social circle game is much more practical. I also do not nightgame, but have used RSD's concepts during daygame.
2. Who would want to deal with a bitch? One of the RSD philosophies is Don't deal with a bitchy girl if there is a hotter one with a better personality somewhere.
3. I cold approach during the day where you're way less likely to get blown out. Ironically hot girls respond better with daygame.
Now I get 2 minutes for rebuttal, yes? I think that's how those presidential debates go... LOL
Point 1. Yes, I am familiar with getting in state. In fact, sometimes I get in state in the wrong situations... like I'll suddenly find myself getting in state at work and be like, "Oh shit... something's about to fly out of my mouth and I'm going to be visiting our friendly HR man again..." Hahaha. I've actually been pulled into HR 7 times in 5 years for Sexual Harassment. You'd think I have a reputation as a perv, but no! I've never been found to have done anything wrong. It always ends with a friend-to-friend request that I please take it easy for his sake, and be more discrete for mine, because there's someone or some people who are making silly claims against me.
The one thing about Cold Approach though, is that it can feed your social circle game. Like for instance, being at work and being the guy who first approaches the new girl and introduces her to your friends. Or being in a bar and being the guy who brings girls over to your table, just to vibe with your other friends... Bam. Cold Approach --> Social Circle. However, at least for me, and again this is somewhere where I may be different from most other guys... for me, getting "in state" with any regularity requires a strong inner frame. And again, this isn't RSD's strong point. Yes, they are right that you want to be in state. They give you ways to pump yourself up. But nothing is as consistent and long-lasting as genuinely becoming someone who is worth paying attention to and investing value in. And that's all inner game stuff, which isn't RSD's forte.
Point 2. Nobody wants to deal with the bitch. My frame (and I admit I never really analyzed it, maybe there's a better one?) is: only the cool girls like me and naturally, they want to come home with me. It's kind of a self-fulfilling prophesy. Step 1. Attraction. Noticing the person. Thing "Yeah, I can stop and talk to her." Step 2. Doubt/Qualification. "I don't know if you're cool." Up to that point, you really don't need much game. All you need to do is have the balls to approach and be fun/skeptical.
Step 3. Rapport/Comfort. This is where Pellicer kicks the ass of every PUA out there, IMHO. Telling your story, putting yourself out there. Learning also to get her to invest. Step 4/5/6. Seduction. Pulling. LMR, etc. In this area, his stuff is no better or worse than anybody else's. Actually, I'd say it's better, but then again, having been through graduate school, I'm more about "the workshop environment" than the funny infotainment stories. But in that regard, to each his own, of course.
Point 3. I agree that hot girls respond better in daytime. I just recently saw something a (presumably hot girl) wrote, where she basically said "Whenever I meet a guy, I imagine telling the story of our first meeting to our future children. If I don't like the story, I start to grow cold." While I don't normally take women's advice on how to pick up women, I think she did have some real insight there. Are you feeding into the fairy tale? Are you giving her a good reason to invest? I think when you approach in the day time, she almost wants it to succeed so that she doesn't wind up with a story that starts in some bar. She invests a tiny bit, almost immediately. But she probably doesn't want the story to end with, "So he took me back to his place and we fucked." So you need to feed a little more of the Prince Charming to her, so that she can then weave it into this romantic story, that makes total sense to other girls.