I've tried them all. And use what ever suits the situation. I also have my own.
I walk up and say "Hi" then I go from there. If they show interest I go direct. If they don't I play hard to get.
If they comply I act sweet, if they turn me down I keep my composure, smile and say: "Cool, no problem" and walk away.
My thinking is this... sure they might turn me down. But sometimes they don't. And the ones that do, when they are home and horny. They are thinking of that guy they could have had. Who is now dating their friend. lol.
Mostly what I do is befriend so many girls that it is ridiculous. My style may seem strange but how many guys do you know who can bang two girls that are close friends and each doesn't care, or even two women that are enemies.
I think I'm going to try playing hard to get, you get soooo many initial prospects. But I was finding that as soon as I let on I was interested the in-congruency would scare them off. With direct method, you scare them off early but what happens is you establish yourself as a lover right off the bat. They may resist but will always remember that guy who handled it well. Women tend to use me for sex. lol, I don't know if that's a good thing or bad thing.
I live in a small town so it's necessary for me to change the rules a bit. I envy you city boys who have the ability to go out and meet new women each and everyday. When I approach a girl she says: "Oh I know you, I've been warned about you." I had to learn how to handle such a situation. Basically don't defend yourself, go with it. I usually just say, "Ya, women usually like me."
Sometimes women will say to me: "Now, don't you get any ideas". I simply don't respond. Not a word or reaction. I just go about my business as usual. If I get a woman alone... she is mine plain and simple. It's getting them alone that is the problem. lol
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