PUA Forum :: I wanna tell a girl I know this DIRECT opener on how I feel

If you're worried about inviting her out too many times and coming across as needy, there is a nice routine that I have learned that really helps eliminate this possibility.

When you want to invite her out with you (and preferably your friends as well), send her a text that is disguised as a mass text.

Example (this can be sent to only her, or if you really want more people to come, text them too)

"Hey guys, we're going to ____ tonight. Be there for 9 and get ready to party."

Obviously yours will be more polished than my example but you get the idea. This lowers the chance of serious rejection (she still may not come, but you don't look like a needy guy by only inviting her.) This also is a slight DHV because for all she knows, there are going to be numerous women coming with you and it shows her that you can have a fun time with or without her.

I agree with the guys above me when they say that you shouldn't put all your eggs in one basket. Go out, fuck a few girls or whatever, become more relaxed, confident, etc and then you will see girls coming after you.

Have fun

Author:	Julianuribe23 [ Fri Jul 29, 2011 7:55 am ]
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Weve known eachother for a little less than a month. I met her at a party and she was flattered that I call her the prettiest girl there and she asked for my number. We just talk here and there and nothing serious. I've attempted to get a day two but she was busy and couldnt go. I was thinking of telling her "Hey I need to tell you something", followed by "I honestly think you are a very interesting and fun person, and I would like to get to know you more (:". what do you guys think?

Author:	Rory1337 [ Fri Jul 29, 2011 9:10 am ]
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Quote: Weve known eachother for a little less than a month. I met her at a party and she was flattered that I call her the prettiest girl there and she asked for my number. We just talk here and there and nothing serious. I've attempted to get a day two but she was busy and couldnt go. I was thinking of telling her "Hey I need to tell you something", followed by "I honestly think you are a very interesting and fun person, and I would like to get to know you more (:". what do you guys think? That's really sweet to say man, but it'll totally disarm your game. I don't know your current frame with this girl but if it's been a month without serious advances, you really need to start getting physical meets and such. Sure causality keeps the situation from growing stagnant, however bro you really got to show her that you are into her without directly giving her the power. You really don't want to have to end up as a cuddle buddy / emotional carebear with her, girls like mystery and confidence. Sure being direct worked to get her number but that's not as a way to escalate into having a sexual or non-platonic relationship, set up a meet and know her more without making it seem AFC. It's about attraction, as Chief said texting/calling is very low on the comfort ladder and you should really build physical rapport before showing your cards. By the way you shouldn't be getting too worked up on one girl, you should be working the field, putting all your eggs into one basket is more emotionally investing and can cause harmful effects on your confidence/ego/inner frame. Goodluck my friend.

Author:	sunnydelight [ Fri Jul 29, 2011 11:57 am ]
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I wouldn't recommend it. It's about making her attracted to you in the first place. Go out and have fun, make her want you. Don't do the "how-I-feel-thing" so soon!

Author:	TheFreshPrince [ Fri Jul 29, 2011 6:36 pm ]
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The reason why that wouldn't work well: It puts you at a lower level than her, thus giving her the power in your relationship. Try to focus on giving her opportunities to meet up with you.

Author:	Julianuribe23 [ Fri Jul 29, 2011 7:32 pm ]
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Quote: The reason why that wouldn't work well: It puts you at a lower level than her, thus giving her the power in your relationship. Try to focus on giving her opportunities to meet up with you. but when I do that, I come across as needy. There are only so many spontanous plans I can invite her to

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Author:	Jerry Green [ Fri Jul 29, 2011 7:57 pm ]
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If you're worried about inviting her out too many times and coming across as needy, there is a nice routine that I have learned that really helps eliminate this possibility. When you want to invite her out with you (and preferably your friends as well), send her a text that is disguised as a mass text. Example (this can be sent to only her, or if you really want more people to come, text them too) "Hey guys, we're going to ____ tonight. Be there for 9 and get ready to party." Obviously yours will be more polished than my example but you get the idea. This lowers the chance of serious rejection (she still may not come, but you don't look like a needy guy by only inviting her.) This also is a slight DHV because for all she knows, there are going to be numerous women coming with you and it shows her that you can have a fun time with or without her. I agree with the guys above me when they say that you shouldn't put all your eggs in one basket. Go out, fuck a few girls or whatever, become more relaxed, confident, etc and then you will see girls coming after you. Have fun

Author:	Fvckitimout [ Fri Jul 29, 2011 9:24 pm ]
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That technically wont be an opener since you already know her. Its more like qualification. And no dont do it, it comes off as desperate just so she would go out with you. Sarge other chicks. Dont stress about her.

Author:	Julianuribe23 [ Fri Jul 29, 2011 11:51 pm ]
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Quote: If you're worried about inviting her out too many times and coming across as needy, there is a nice routine that I have learned that really helps eliminate this possibility. When you want to invite her out with you (and preferably your friends as well), send her a text that is disguised as a mass text. Example (this can be sent to only her, or if you really want more people to come, text them too) "Hey guys, we're going to ____ tonight. Be there for 9 and get ready to party." Obviously yours will be more polished than my example but you get the idea. This lowers the chance of serious rejection (she still may not come, but you don't look like a needy guy by only inviting her.) This also is a slight DHV because for all she knows, there are going to be numerous women coming with you and it shows her that you can have a fun time with or without her. I agree with the guys above me when they say that you shouldn't put all your eggs in one basket. Go out, fuck a few girls or whatever, become more relaxed, confident, etc and then you will see girls coming after you. Have fun I'm talking to a few other girls right now, but she is different. Shes actually a very sweet, nice girl. I have a dozen eggs but this one seems like a possible golden egg

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