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Author:  Samz911 [ Fri Jul 29, 2011 7:43 am ]
Post subject:  What Should My Next Move Be?
Hey guys,

I'm stuck on this part of my game, I hope you can help. The background is that it was a nice sunny day and I saw this very cute girl lying down in the park, so I approached, opened and ended up spending about 30 mins sitting talking to her; I felt it went well. Her friends then came back after 30 mins or so and we talked together for a short while, then I made an excuse and left not wanting to overstay. We started sending texts later that evening, and they are transcribed below.

Btw, where it says PLACE, I've just censored it for privacy.
Quote:
Me: Hi Sarah, great meeting you earlier. Let's try to make the Sunday :-) Do you have Facebook? Sam

Her: So Sam, do you often ask girls out in the park?!

Me: Haha, no I don't! I enjoyed our conversation and thought you were cute. So Sarah, do you really work insane 24/7 hours?

Her: Not quite but pretty much 14hr days...knackering! How was your afternoon?

Me: Wow, that's dedication! Afternoon was great,soaked up what was left of the sun and met a couple of friends for dinner. What did you get up to?

Her: We just ended up staying in the park till quite late...such a beautiful day! Do you work in PLACE too?

Break: Next Day

Me: Hey there how's your day going. Seems like you have a natural affinity towards parks :-) I live in PLACE and work in PLACE. So remind me again, do you live and work in PLACE just for the summer?

Break: 3 days later

Her: Hey Sam. It was really nice meeting you but I can't meet up with you as I am seeing someone so wouldn't be fair. I enjoyed our chat though in the sunny park...X
So, what do you think this means; and what should my next move be?

Thanks.

Sam
Author:  Rory1337 [ Fri Jul 29, 2011 9:15 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What Should My Next Move Be?
Quote:
Hey guys,

I'm stuck on this part of my game, I hope you can help. The background is that it was a nice sunny day and I saw this very cute girl lying down in the park, so I approached, opened and ended up spending about 30 mins sitting talking to her; I felt it went well. Her friends then came back after 30 mins or so and we talked together for a short while, then I made an excuse and left not wanting to overstay. We started sending texts later that evening, and they are transcribed below.

Btw, where it says PLACE, I've just censored it for privacy.
Quote:
Me: Hi Sarah, great meeting you earlier. Let's try to make the Sunday :-) Do you have Facebook? Sam

Her: So Sam, do you often ask girls out in the park?!

Me: Haha, no I don't! I enjoyed our conversation and thought you were cute. So Sarah, do you really work insane 24/7 hours?

Her: Not quite but pretty much 14hr days...knackering! How was your afternoon?

Me: Wow, that's dedication! Afternoon was great,soaked up what was left of the sun and met a couple of friends for dinner. What did you get up to?

Her: We just ended up staying in the park till quite late...such a beautiful day! Do you work in PLACE too?

Break: Next Day

Me: Hey there how's your day going. Seems like you have a natural affinity towards parks :-) I live in PLACE and work in PLACE. So remind me again, do you live and work in PLACE just for the summer?

Break: 3 days later

Her: Hey Sam. It was really nice meeting you but I can't meet up with you as I am seeing someone so wouldn't be fair. I enjoyed our chat though in the sunny park...X
So, what do you think this means; and what should my next move be?

Thanks.

Sam
Hey Sam, yeah it's basically quite obvious on what she wants she's being direct about it so it's really probably about her timing. You could try disqualifying her, "that's fine you'd make a nice friend" friend-zoning her and keeping her reserved. Perhaps meet her under the pretences that you want to be friends or something, pretty much do everything you'd do on a normal day 2 except don't be verbal or overly physically escalating. Do your best to work with attraction with her and it should keep your connections and rapports reserved, perhaps untill she's more interested in you than the guy she's seeing.

Either that or just do your best to play the field and forget about her.
Author:  AttractionKings [ Fri Jul 29, 2011 9:17 am ]
Post subject: 
That's great me too, your lost. Move on.
Author:  Slip n Slide [ Fri Jul 29, 2011 4:16 pm ]
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I agree with Rory. Friend zone her to get a chance at her friends, but there's not much hope.
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