For shit-tests do you usually never bothering answering their question, and move onto something else? and also, do you think I should ignore her last text all alone and not bother answering that text of "never saying bye"
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| Author: | ironmon23 [ Wed Jul 27, 2011 5:47 pm ] |
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Hey guys. First of all I just want to tell you guys this girl I've been texting this a girl from one of my classes. Every time she text's me it's either for the class or just to say "what's up?" The first week I got her number I told her in person that we should hang out on wednesday, and she told me to text her and stuff. But unfortunately, I forgot to text her and I ended up going to a club with a bunch of friends (mind you it was a club either of us could get into since we are both not 21). But anyways, the next day after class she kept telling me how "I didn't text her" and I should have texted her to chill. But, I screwed that up and told her we should hang out that friday. Which btw, was the same day class was but she told me she was going out with some friends to some place out in brickell, and she didn't invite. So today its been a few days since I asked her out to hang out, and I text her saying. ME: So tonight, get a nice outfit on and bring some sandals. Get ready to have an awesome time tonight! Her: Lol I cannttt go. Wednesday are not free days like u lol. The question is, is she flaking on me because I did the same to her last week? or should I send another text asking if friday she wants to hang out. I don't want to lose this attraction and seem as "the needy-classmate". All opinions are needed, Thanks. |
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| Author: | Katon [ Wed Jul 27, 2011 6:25 pm ] |
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Your first problem is no rapport. You've invested no time in getting to know her, and instead barrage her with " Wanna hang out? ". Which in girl talk translates to, " Want some dick? ". You say you don't wanna be the "needy classmate" but you've already came off to strong. Turn your heat down a couple notches and just text her for a couple days, make small talk, flirt with her, but do all of it through text. Build that comfort and when she wants to hang out she'll let you know. Keep your head up and keep sarging soldier! - Katon |
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| Author: | Don Draper [ Wed Jul 27, 2011 6:29 pm ] |
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No, she is not doing unto you what you did unto her. Maybe she lost that interest in you. That could be a possibility. Or she just is speaking the truth and Wednesdays are actually not free for her. Suggest the other day plan and if she makes excuses or cancels, don't resume contact with her. |
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| Author: | ironmon23 [ Thu Jul 28, 2011 5:06 pm ] |
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Well yesterday, I texted her saying if she was open for friday instead, she simply never replied. So, now I guess its a lost cause. But then, I woke up today and sent me a text saying "I have a lslight problem" and then a few hours later she texts me saying me "Wrong Text lol" so i guess all is over with this chick. But how, should I act this friday since I see her in my class and she always talks to me. Should I just play it cool and be like nothing happened? Any suggestions? Thanks. |
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| Author: | Don Draper [ Thu Jul 28, 2011 5:53 pm ] |
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Actually, you just be formal and polite to her. Show her that you're maintaining a safe distance with her. She should know what she lost, now shouldn't she? |
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| Author: | ironmon23 [ Thu Jul 28, 2011 6:03 pm ] |
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In other words, kill her with your kindness. Thanks dude. |
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| Author: | pumpington [ Thu Jul 28, 2011 7:05 pm ] |
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no not kindness, you misunderstand, be polite, but not kind, the opposite of love, is indifference, be indifferent |
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| Author: | Slip n Slide [ Fri Jul 29, 2011 4:11 am ] |
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Quote: Well yesterday, I texted her saying if she was open for friday instead, she simply never replied. So, now I guess its a lost cause. But then, I woke up today and sent me a text saying "I have a lslight problem" and then a few hours later she texts me saying me "Wrong Text lol" so i guess all is over with this chick. But how, should I act this friday since I see her in my class and she always talks to me. Should I just play it cool and be like nothing happened?
She fucking knew who she was texting... sorry but I hate that wrong text stuff, it's almost always intentional, especially with a text like that. There may be a way to invite her again on friday but I'm not sure how I would go about it.
Any suggestions? Thanks. |
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| Author: | ironmon23 [ Mon Aug 01, 2011 6:42 pm ] |
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Well its been like 3 days since I last saw the chick. It was my last day of summer classes in college this past friday, and last night (Sunday) she sent me a text saying "By the way you never said bye" she said this because I didn't wait for her after class and talk to her. I guess she realized I was never going to text her, since she never freaking responded to my text before to meet up. Do you guys think I should text her back a few days later and tell her to meet up or something.. I think i'm overthinking this, what do you guys think? |
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| Author: | Slip n Slide [ Mon Aug 01, 2011 10:54 pm ] |
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You are overthinking it. She shouldn't have expected you to wait for her, so I think your interaction so far has been a little unbalanced. If you do invite her out (which would be fine) be prepared to deal with her shit tests better. If you don't then on to the next one. |
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| Author: | ironmon23 [ Mon Aug 01, 2011 11:15 pm ] |
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For shit-tests do you usually never bothering answering their question, and move onto something else? and also, do you think I should ignore her last text all alone and not bother answering that text of "never saying bye" Have a nice day!
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