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Author:  Gman82 [ Sun Jul 17, 2011 4:18 pm ]
Post subject:  Phone game - Failure or not - Help a brother

Met a HB9 promo model and managed to number close her - details in a previous thread [link]

So I left it until later the next day to text her on the number she gave me
And it went a little like this...
Gman82:"Hey shortie. Hope you feeling fine today. Little bit tipsy last night?"
HB9Promo:"ahah who's this"
Gman82:"Haha, what a burn. It's you're old mate .... Actually just met you last night. Hope you didn't get in too much trouble.:
HB9Promo:"Oh hey ahah yeh fuck not too crash hot today ai"
Gman82:"Do you remember much from last night?"
HB9Promo:"um yeah I think so ahha"
Gman82:"Yeah right you little space cadet. Smile You were pretty funny. Do you even remember giving me your number?"
HB9Promo:"Yes I do hey I wasn't that bad I have been worse ahah"
Gman82:"I bet you have lol! Bet you're a real lightweight"
HB9Promo"Ahah" - this is where I think I lost it
Gman82:"Anyways shortie I got a busy night. I'll let you know when me and my friends are heading out, as long as you promise not to embarrass me"
HB9Promo:"Ahahha me embarras u ahahha"
Gman82:"Raaw getting your claws out are we?"
HB9Promo:"Ahhaha not at all"
Gman82:"Lol, you're actually good fun actually. Don't let it go to your head"
HB9Promo:"Ahahahha oh straight to the head"
Gman82:"It's about to pop"
-No response

Too much negging? Too needy? Too situational? Too needy?

I had her buying temperature right up there when I met her, but I know that's all gone the next day when someone is hung over.
Don't want to appear too needy and keep dragging responses out of her.
Wondering wether I should leave it and start with something completely new and fun?

Author:  JetLife [ Mon Jul 18, 2011 3:24 am ]
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Too much negging id say, you tossed about 3 at her real quick... Also i woulda sent her a fun txt right when you got her number then leave it at that so then she knows who shes txting n you guys have already been txting. Makes for a smoother transition then next morning. Give it a bit of time then go at her again.

Good luck

Author:  Nebraskan [ Mon Jul 18, 2011 4:41 am ]
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Yeah a bit too much negging I'd say bro. HB 9's don't need as many negs as 8's, at least around here. Put yourself in her situation, she probably thinks you're full of yourself, no offense of course. Let it sit a day or so, then try to remember something she said during the pickup, preferably when she was DHV (and I assume she did from the amount of negging u used in just txts haha). Then try to bring it up the next time you text her. For example, she says she plays a lot of volleyball, so you could text her something like "hey it's a great day, let's go to the beach and you can try (and probably succeed at) kicking my ass in some volleyball :)"
or she said she likes animals, so you could send something like "hey I'm hanging out with my friend baxter, I told him about you and I think he'd love to meet you. He has brown hair, weighs about 40lbs, and loves to chase the mailman."

Or something like that bro, go CF with something you remember her saying. Chapter 11 of the Art of Seduction is Pay Attention to Detail: "Lofty words of love and grand gestures can be suspicious: Why are you trying so hard to please? The details of a seduction- the subtle gestures, the offhand things you do- are often more charming and revealing. You must learn to distract your victims with a myriad of pleasant little rituals- thoughtful gifts tailored just for them, clothes and adornments designed to please them, gestures that show the time and attention you are paying them. Mesmerized by what they see, they will not notice what you are really up to."
Maybe not all of it is adaptable to gaming drunk chicks, but it's a good chapter.

Author:  Gman82 [ Mon Jul 18, 2011 11:15 pm ]
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Thanks heaps for the analysis guys.
I've never looked into over-negging as an issue, but you might be onto something.
Especially when the delivery comes out so harsh over text.

I'll try re-open her with text about what she talked to me about on the night.
See if that helps.

Good advice - I'll let you know how I go

Author:  Gman82 [ Sun Jul 31, 2011 2:36 pm ]
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Just for record.

EPIC FAIL

Haha, the texting stopped not long after this. :(

Onward and upward!

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