Unfortunately it is a lot like MM, but i can still use what you said.
My biggest problem, i should have made it clearer, is finding an excuse or a reason for her to leave her city to come and visit me. Maybe I should suggest going on a day trip around london, going to a london nightclub, watching a movie or maybe just straight up come to my house and chill avec moi.
According to style: it's better to bring her to your world, in my case london, than to go into hers
Style also says: if you stay at one stage for too long and don't move forwards she'll lose interest.
Hmmm... just had an idea right now, how about; neg her about living in bournemouth, boast about how amazing london is, then we'll arrange to meet up and do something fun in central london like visit a museum or even go to camden town market (that place is magical) and have some chinese on those cool bike seat things (if you havent already seen then, check them out asap).
YOU CAN STOP HERE AND POST A REPLY, MY QUESTION IS NOW CLEAR, OR CARRY ON WITH THE REST OUT OF CURIOSITY
(if anyone has never been to camden, it's a massive market place, a bit like a shopping center except its outdoors and really cool with a mod feel)
(if you don't know what a mod is, they were around in england in the 60s, going off topic...)
I'm getting a massive influx of ideas right now, thinking a lot faster than I can type.
father's day is in 6 days so that will give us the perfect excuse to go to camden asap. She might have been on movie dates, dinner dates etc. but i bet she ain't never been on a market date.
I'm actually thinking that the best place or activity for a date is something she's never done before that way you'll get a deeper connection. Plus everytime she recalls the first time she did it, she'll think of you. I think in NLP that's called anchoring, something like building emotional relationships in her mind?
Gentlemen, my apologies the length of this post but i'll need to refer back to this in the morning.
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