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Author:  Viscious [ Mon Mar 21, 2011 6:40 pm ]
Post subject:  Just some texts I've been sending to an interest of mine
Just some texts I've been sending to a girl (HB9)
This is just bits and pieces of things that just work for me. If they help you out cool

Me: Hey do me a favor
Her: What's that?
Me: Could you smile right now for me please?
(before response)
Me: I'd give anything to see it
Her: Awwwww ur so sweet to me thnks for the smile
(Works great if she's in a bad mood. Or as a text opener with whatcha doin babe? afterwards)

Her: Where have you been all my life?
Me: Looking for you
Her: Well you were looking in all the wrong places I guess.
Me: It was you who found me remember?
(conversational opener, I find too much agreeing and mirroring becomes monotonous to me in the beginning so I challenge their ideas. Just go with whatever she responds.)
In my case when initially using this, her response was HER: Hmmm true
(here Hmmm is associated with thinking, since I've anchored it to that previously so her mind thinks that I'm the one inciting her thoughts and she's associating me with bettering herself or getting smarter. But again, this is just what I do.)

When a girl responds or continues conversations with negative words such as hate, dislike, you know what i fuckin mean you guys aren't idiots...through text messaging you can change that around by making her mirror you by using the opposite words such as like, or love, whatever. This could elevate her mood

Her: GOD!!!! I hate (blah blah blah)
Me: Yeah but you know what I love? Snowcones!
Her: Yeah snowcones are kick ass
Her: My favorite is (blah blah blah)

(pulled this one off my phone from a couple days ago, I could tell she was tired and mad so I kept flipping it around to subjects of general interest, one's that everybody likes, Kool-aid was also something I used in this text convo. I also didn't try to put her in a good mood, I just text her things in context to our conversation . Needless to say her mood elevated and she associated it with me. These little things make them fall in love. Even if it just a 5 minute text convo.)

These are just pieces of what I do to build a deeper connection from her to me. I find actually liking and caring for the girl, (cuz who wouldnt want to marry the prettiest girl in the world?) makes it seem more genuine for her. Also, use 1inAMILL tech to make her feel more special, fuckin take her breathe away bro! Thanks for your time.
Author:  _Manna_ [ Wed Mar 23, 2011 1:19 am ]
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Sounds to me like you're still in friend type conversation. And your anchoring to thinking idea is just a bit silly.
Author:  Viscious [ Wed Mar 23, 2011 3:34 am ]
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well i cant be anything more than a "friend" right now. I'm stealing her from somebody.(x.x) but, if you think about it, the girl thinking she's better from interactions with me as opposed to the man she's with now...I'm doing just right. This isn't a "Hey let's fuck thing" this is the "be patient and take your time thing" I know you pua's are all about getting through it quickly or straight to bed but I like the chase I guess...Thank you for input sir, and again, this is just stuff that works for me.
Good luck
Author:  Viscious [ Wed Mar 23, 2011 4:16 pm ]
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Sounds to me like you're still in friend type conversation. And your anchoring to thinking idea is just a bit silly.
Her : I would so lick ur lip ring and bite ut bottom lip but wouldn't kiss u right away, i'd get real close but make u wait a lil bit for the kiss.

Her : I like to be loud sometimes...
Me: ...I like making you loud. and i like to go slow sometimes
Her : There's something very sexual about u that I can't help myself.... hmmm (REMEMBER HMMM FUCKER! ITS ANCHORED TO HER BENEFITING FROM THINKING WHICH SHE ASSOCIATES WITH ME!)
Her : Mmmmm that's sooo hott!!! (I dont know why we use hott with 2 t's...)

Remember guys, this is only a txt thing that's goin on with me and this hb9. It's just little curve balls she sends me and i chill out and fire em right bacl.
Author:  BGroove [ Thu Mar 24, 2011 12:38 am ]
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I think its great you post "fieldtested" textgame. Openers all over the place but tactics on how and when to use what are so more valuable!

I usually try to keep alternating signs of interest and signs of disinterest in order to get some attraction. Its essential to any textgame to balance those things and its a really good idea imo to put some DHV and stuff in it too. Tried two tings on two girls today, 1 responded extremely well (altho it was a bit standard what I did send, not like its anything new but I liked the idea of testing it after I havent had contact with her for a few days, felt like I need to stay in touch with her because we have this date-idea in about 2.5 weeks because of tests for school on my side).
The other thing didnt work out to well. What went wrong was I started on a girl with attraction-stuff instead of comfort-stuff which wasnt smart since I have done almost zero gaming on her in RL. But yeah I've learned from it, tomorrow Ill try to build some comfort by texting.

Sounds like the girl youre textgaming is pretty in to you but the deeper you get in the comfortzone how harder you'll need to try to build attraction in order to get to the relationship sweet-spot. So you might want to add some sexual stuff or some things that make her visualize/think about you and her together having fun/making out ;)

Keep us posted mate!
Author:  Viscious [ Thu Mar 24, 2011 6:35 pm ]
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Sounds like the girl youre textgaming is pretty in to you but the deeper you get in the comfortzone how harder you'll need to try to build attraction in order to get to the relationship sweet-spot.
Oh fo sho my dude!
I'm actually kinda doing both at the same time. Like Ok look at the physiology of this chick. She is 26 years old and sex deprived. She's looking for any outlet possible. I mean my last text (before my phone died was)

Her : We could have a baby
so obviously FZ (friendzone) is not a problem, in fact in this situation, I want to be in FZ, she's not looking for a boyfriend she's looking for a husband. Easy to discern within the first 15 minutes of talking to any girl. The FZ thing, is as long as I keep doing what I'm doing and playing not only her sexual/instinctual side(Telling her that she's smoking fuckin hott) but her sentient/strong individual side (like reassuring her that she's the most beautiful girl in the world.) You will be put into a deeper connection and she's thinking..."Who is this guy? He crashed into my life at full force, turned my world upside down, and I want to be with him forever and be the mother of his children."
FZ and AZ (Attraction Zone) are a fine line that we all walk at one time. And the only thing I can say is let the girl KNOW that you want her more than a friend. When she starts putting you in that, respond in a way that doesn't put you there.
IE
HER : Maybe we shouldn't be like this anymore
ME : I just need time to think, let me get back at you

Now when this happened, it was a thursday and I had already made plans to meet up with her and her friends on Saturday. So I rode the FZ, but kept it sexual in the texts. When she hung out with me (After txting me 3 different outfits ((I
Author:  Viscious [ Thu Mar 24, 2011 6:43 pm ]
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CORSETS) that Saturday night we all met up at a club/bar and drank. I didn't play the field (even tho I should have to force IOI's) I instead made it look like what it was exactly, I was there because of HER, not because of anybody else. This made a deeper connection between us two, by making her feel "Special". When me and my friend walked her and her friends to the car, she hugged me and said "Is your phone charged" I smiled and said it was and they took off. I pulled out my phone and counted down from 5 with a friend of mine, and sure enough within 5 seconds she text me and I was out of the FZ. Because she saw that I didn't care about anything or anybody else from her. This works for me, a girl might think you're too clingy maybe if you come off like this but like I said this girl isnt looking for a boyfriend she's looking for the father of her kids.

Thanks and good luck
more to come
Author:  BGroove [ Tue Apr 12, 2011 11:38 pm ]
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So, any updates? :) I am kinda confused by what you want of her btw. Just sex or actually serious long-term stuff?
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