I met this girl through my work and she invited me to her parents timeshare to party with her friends. After some drinks and a lot of laughs I was in with her friends. Basically getting the green light.
Soon after a night of drinking, getting to know about her, and a lot of fun I was in bed with her.
It was getting hot and heavy but I got the words most men dont want to hear in a situation such as this "I just met you" taking in consideration about the comment I slowed down a little bit but it soon got back into grabbing for a condom and again the girl was hesitant to take it the next base. I really enjoyed the conversations and time i had with the girl and I wasn't about to force anything on her. I respected her and actually really liked her. Now my question is about dominance. I know females like a dominate male. Someone who takes control and doesn't hesitate or 2nd guess themselves. I feel like that night I could've gotten laid, but for some reason I always tend to back off if I really like the girl, but at the same time I feel like it makes me seem weak. Like apologizing all the time, thats another bad habit im trying to break. I wasn't sure if she was testing me or what. So i wasn't sure if I should of been a little bit more dominate and just went for it, because her body was ready and willing and her mind was too, but her nice and sweet personality told her to slow things down.
It was the first time we met so I can understand that. We were still developing that sense of trust between us. Or at least me trying to gain her trust. I have this problem with girls a lot. I am a very friendly, fit, and good looking guy, but also can be shy and insecure about myself. Girls tend to think right off that im a player who is just trying to get some. I have a great personality and im not to cocky i dont think, maybe a little touchy feely when im drunk, but not overly aggressive at all. How do I gain a girls trust and let her know I really would like to see her again and make her believe it.
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