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Author:  Ptown [ Sun Feb 27, 2011 12:20 am ]
Post subject:  Sexual Framing

I don't know if there is already a thread of this but I've started thinking about this topic a lot more lately as I think its what is missing from my encounters to get a SNL or even just a better interaction.

Here are some I've thought of

On first meeting the girl: "Fuck me..........." then compliment how they look.

After some sexual references: "So whats the craziest thing you've ever done?......... And it can't be you wanting to fuck me tonight."

I try to take any opportunity to make references to sex but I am no expert on this so give feedback or add anything you've used before.

Author:  AdamThomas [ Sun Feb 27, 2011 11:56 am ]
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The ones you came up with are quite weird, sorry mate. There are quite a few ways you can turn the conversation sexual...

On the opener, use a direct opener. Don't compliment her on looking "interesting" or that she "has a good energy" or any of that bullshit. Even thought loads of people tell you not to, compliment her on her looks, she knows that's why you've approached her anyway. This is the easiest way to sexually frame a conversation, since she knows you're not approaching just to make friends, you're approaching because you're interested in her.

Misinterpretation is easy to use. Basically just misinterpret whatever she says as being sexual e.g:
Girl: Fuck you!
Guy: Hey hold on, not so fast! We only just met! What kind of guy do you take me for?! :P

Girl: I need to go to the bank
Guy: Excuse me?! You want to watch me wank? You're very forward aren't you? I've only just met you...

You get the idea. Just use whatever she says and twist it. Also it's always a good idea to make her out to be a big perv. Anytime she says anything that could be misinterpreted as above, just tease her for being dirty minded. Play the innocent victim as girls usually do, but do it in a playful way that makes it obvious you're just taking the piss:

Girl: Fuck you!
Guy: Fuck me? Is that all you women think about? OMG! I'm so tired of being seen as a sex object... I'm not just some mindless piece of meat, I have feelings too you know?! You women are all the same! :roll:

If you have the balls you can just tell her straight exactly what you want. Say if you feel the conversation is getting a little bit boring, but you can tell she's into you, just say something like:

"this is getting boring... when was the last time you got fucked properly?"

It will probably shock her, and it creates loads of sexual tension. Also shows you a lot of good things - sexual confidence, non-judgemental... All the things you need for an SNL. Then the conversation will probably move to even more sexual topics. Sex is actually one of the best topics to use since EVERYBODY has something to say about it.

Hope this helps :)

Author:  ramlives [ Sun Feb 27, 2011 12:07 pm ]
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You're getting the wrong idea on this, sexual framing is not talking about sex, thou you can use the subject to frame you just gotta have the right calibration

read this lr-two-friends-extremely-detailed-snl-game-vt85977.html its an LR and it should hopefully clarify things a little

If you have any questions on the subject I can help, its something I've studied and put alot of time into and I've used it in reality so its not just book read crap I know, I've had proper results using it

And remember when you are out in the clubs you are already in a sexual frame, chicks know why you're there, they are not stupid!

Author:  Ptown [ Mon Feb 28, 2011 11:20 pm ]
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Thanks guys I definitely didn't understand the concept it makes more sense now mine were weird. Really trying to figure the best way to get SNL's in my town had a lot of trial and error.

Author:  AdamThomas [ Tue Mar 01, 2011 1:05 am ]
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Yeah its simple really once you know how, all you really need to focus on is making sure the vibe between you and the girl is sexual from the start. Most guys go in with the ''I'm just being friendly/social'' frame, then they wonder why girls only see them as friends or blow them out when they try to make a move. From the start just set the frame as ''we're going to get to know eachother as potential sexual partners'' and escalate.

Author:  ramlives [ Tue Mar 01, 2011 6:17 pm ]
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I live in a town and I can 100% tell you with confidence that getting snl's in your town comes down to who you know, in other words work on getting a large social circl so you can get back to house partys if you live with your parents, if not start inviting trusted people back to your place, start small and it will build, most of my snls have been on other peoples couches

but logistics is just one part, in the words of adam lyons "you still gotta game her!"

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