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| Author: | 'Vlad' [ Sat Jan 29, 2011 3:27 am ] |
| Post subject: | pre-framing the close |
Average vs. Sexy Women don’t want to be considered as average “ So, I was talking with my pals the other day and we was all laughing about how its always the typical, average girl who plays hard to get. All guys seem to know this and thats the funny thing about it! But what you guys don’t know is that we all know about this type of woman. About the fact they exist and they’re effectively playing games. To guys, the sexy woman is the one that’s really assertive. The one that goes after what she wants and doesn’t play that ‘hard to get’ game. Those are the type of girls that we really, really want” You have just issued the ultimate challenge For the guys that like to talk theory I will point out what’s happening here; • Double binding their response. They either move in the direction you wish, or are just ‘average girls’ • If they don’t go for what they want then not only do they become ‘average girls’, they also become manipulative ‘average girls’ • You give them an opportunity to be the sexy woman. • You’re creating comfort by letting them in on a guy secret. Comfort is often the pre-curser to trust. Secrets are often traded • You’re creating an us-and-them bubble. You’re kinda ratting guys out, but in a way that doesn’t shed any bad light on them. Its powerful stuff. My closes have gone up exponentially using this. Nothing more to say, try it and see! |
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