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| Author: | PUA Lucky [ Fri Jan 07, 2011 10:13 pm ] |
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I recently just got a phone so texting is new to me. I haven't had the time to read any "text game" book and frankly I think I can figure it out on my own by practice. Ok, this text is from a recent gurl I met at my job, I just want to know what I could have done better or when can I go from this...here's the story THE GIRL: Met her at work first day. Started flirting with her with extreme kino. We were basically hugging the whole time. Got her number. 5 days laters I saw her in a club where I try to make out with her and she playfully rejected. I also danced with one of her friends who tole me "Don't do it, she'll get jealous" So, because of all that I think she is attracted to me. I saw her while I was checking my schedule the next day and she told me she had this "date" in two day. I played it cool and pretend I didn't care because I believe I told her I was a poligamist. Just a side note, I really liked this gurl so when she said that in my mind I said "FUCK!!!!" but I remain cool lol. Two weeks pass without seeing or talking to each other and I text her this: ME: "OMG like I just saw ur twin" (I wrote that so she would definetely write back) HER: "Ohh that poor girl!" ME: "That's a very positive way to think of urself" HER: "lol oh well" ME: "Hey, I would like to hang out with u this week. R u free" HER: "Umm I have school next week silly" ME: "What about Sunday? I should be busy saturday" (I tried to make look like I was busy to seemed cooler...idk if that really works) HER: "Why? What do u want to do?" ME: "cuz i think ur cute. and i don't think that far ahead : )" HER: "Hmmm.....bahahahahaha" (I laugh so hard when she wrote that) ME: "I'm gonna take that as a yes for next next sunday" HER: "Omg sorry nooo! I really don't konw when I'm not gonna be busy" -Since I knew that was a nice way of saying fuck off, I wannted to try something new at wrote: ME: "NO U NEED ME! : ) jk...that's cool text it HER: LOL ok Does anybody have an idea of improving this conversation? Or base on the situation, a better way to ask a girl out? and who thinks I still got a chance lol |
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| Author: | ConfusedSuds [ Fri Jan 07, 2011 10:22 pm ] |
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Your putting her on the golden plate, your treating her like a god. Your both human cool it off. The beginning was a huge downer, you don't converse in text you invite them out. Be confident and direct, specific times. It should be something like: Hey I'm planning on going to place X at place Y then, I'd enjoy your company if you tagged along. 
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| Author: | blanksman [ Sat Jan 08, 2011 8:10 pm ] |
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Yeah, you basically showed her you like her. She's now realized that. It shoud've been the other way around. If she says something like "I dunno I'm busy" well...that's a no go there! Sorry! I think you almost blew it. |
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| Author: | Ptown [ Mon Jan 10, 2011 3:57 am ] |
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If you want better results call her. I know it can be scary but the more you do it the easier it gets. Just make plan to set up a meet get in get out and make the phonecall as short as possible. It helps to know b4 u call her when shes free. Also by calling you put her under pressure and make her submit into saying yes to meet. I wouldn't use that twin thing you used becos its pointless and btw i used it last night out clubbing cos i actually saw someone who looked almost identical to someone i knew an then i felt i had to prove to her that i wasn't bullshitting. |
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| Author: | Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Mon Jan 10, 2011 12:28 pm ] |
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She's not interested. Move on. What the fuck is the big deal. You can reduce flakes by 1. Setting up the day 2 at the time you actually see them 2. Calling and have a fun chat for 5 min and then setting up the day 2 (in case she's forgotten how AWESOME you are) 3. Making sure you actually build some rapport and find some commonalities with her when you do the initial approach. If you know she loves indie music then she's more likely to come to see a cool new band play at a bar near you than if you just invite her for a bog standard "drink / food." |
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| Author: | PUA Lucky [ Mon Jan 30, 2012 3:08 pm ] |
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@ Ryan, she might have moved on, but I can't! haha |
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