Hello.
Ever seen best friends in deep rapport? What do they do.
They don't ask:
"how do you feel about this"
"so"
"how was that?"
Saying things like this reminds your HB target that you're a stranger trying to get to know her. Rather than you're someone who already knows her.
Think about the first time you first met with your best friend. Did you ask a bunch of questions and say "so" or "how do you feel" like a million times?
OR
Did you just dive into rapport assuming you both knew each other and were long buddies who have not seen each other in a long time.
I noticed this with chicks. When they gossip Jesus christ they get into intense rapport they talk as if they're not trying to get rapport. They don't ask themselves "so how did you get into that" "so, what makes you interested in that?" "so, why did you become a school student" "so, why is it that you loved that mcdonalds so much?"
You see a pattern there? All those statements I made were meant to seek rapport rather than to keep the rapport going. Every time you seek rapport your target is reminded that you're a stranger, which destroys comfort.
What is the fix to all this? Simply talk to a girl about topics as if they were your best friend already or the way you talk to your mom, dad, or siblings in a long 3 hour trip.
I need techniques that foster rapport. I know only pop culture + news.
I use pop culture + news because it helps me get into the HBs mind to talk about people we know already and events we know already. This way we feel like we have so much in common even though all we did was talk about these events we saw in movies and in the news or from people in Disneyland and our government or whatever things that all people know about.
Talking about these common things will get her thinking about you as being just like her and doing the same things she does and the same things she knows.
Every pickup artist I see DOES THIS. They talk to a girl like if they want to get to know things about her, which equals SEEKING RAPPORT. Has anyone tried just fostering rapport and how did that work out for you.
Here is an example of my rapport fostering. Notice that the only times I seek rapport is within 4 or so simple questions in the whole conversation.
Okay this this omegle conversation is with a basement dweller those guys that can't have a conversation for shit. You need to look at the beginning when he was all shy and all he said was "okay" or "lol" then towards the end he starts putting in so much input and sharing his opinions and I did NOT ever ask him what he thought of those movies or how he felt about those movies.
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You: hi!
Stranger: hi
You: 19 female california
Stranger: i am looking for indian girl
You: indian girls live in india
You: not in america lol
Stranger: yes i know
You: try to look in india for indian girls or the internet
Stranger: i am indian
You: what age?>
You: are you
Stranger: 22
You: 22 youre allowed to drink
You: i cant drink until im 21....
Stranger: yes i drunk already
You: well you do that often?
Stranger: what are you doing here
You: im working
You: on my work
Stranger: ohhhh
Stranger: where
You: right in my house
You: sitting in my computer chari
Stranger: okay
You: this chair is so big and im so tiny
Stranger: ha ha
You: but the desk is smaller like me
Stranger: ok
You: you chat alot?
Stranger: yes
You: chatting is simple with texts
You: especially the unlimited packages and such
Stranger: yes baby you are right
You: yeah but even chatting can get a bit naughty some times ya know lol
Stranger: how
You: well i dont know. to know that sort of things alcohol is needed lol
Stranger: you wanna drink
You: youre the drinker so youre the expert at chatting naughty _:)
You: ill take some distilled drinks. the heavy stuff
Stranger: okay
You: beer just has too little alcohol to get the freak out of someone lol
Stranger: yes you are right
Stranger:
You: thats why when you buy some alcohol get some wines and vodkas
Stranger: you are very naughty
You: well ive yet to see that cuz i havent drank yet
Stranger: i like wine not vodka
You: besides all this work is making me wanna break some rules right now
Stranger: vodka only for girls
You: what are some other girly drinks
You: the other ones are those little cock tails lol
Stranger: so whats your name
You: Jane
You: yours?
Stranger: ajay
Stranger: nice name
You: nice meeting you ajay (shakes hand)
You: thanks
Stranger: >>>>>>
You: Jane is a name from the place I grew up
Stranger: okay
You: its a super common name
You: for the place i live in
Stranger: okay
You: you come accross a lot of ajays? with the same name
Stranger: yes baby
You: lol
Stranger:
You: well listen to this
Stranger: what?
You: just yesterday i was readin this paper on this crazed maniac that was in mcdonalnds just went in there and wrecked the place while everyone had their calm nice breakfast
You: people are getting crazier these days
Stranger: why?
You: what sort of mindset makes a person flip out and want to destroy everyones breakfast, some crazy lunatic lol
You: oh and you have not heard everything until you watch those dysney movies, dont even get me started lol
You: what movies you do watch often?
Stranger: each and every kind of
You: horror, action? state your favorite
Stranger: i.e inception, chronicles of narnia, resident evil after life, tron legacy
You: \
Stranger: u can say each n every kind
You: LOL look at leonardo decaprio
You: lets see that guys name was
Stranger: i don't have ny specific state
You: mr... something
You: hmm its on the tip of my tongue
You: ah
Stranger: to whom u r talkin bout
You: its mr sanderson. thats the guys name in the movie Inception
Stranger: k..u lyk inception
Stranger: it was awesome movie
You: damn i cannot belive that mr sanderson would even risk his life going into the dream world
Stranger: yep who made to plan to be more richer than his competetor
You: and get this. not only did mr sanderson risk his life but hes risking his friends lives!! lol...
Stranger: true
You: yeah what is up with that riskin his life just for money..
You: crazy or what? this guy sounds to me like the mcdonalds nut.
Stranger: to make his mind set that there was a dispute between him and his father
You: except hes not in a dream world lol
You: yeah the fathers name i remember his face
You: but not his name
Stranger: thatz true
You: it must be mr sanderson SENIOR
Stranger: ha ha ha
You: then his kids he risked it all going into the 3rd level without even thinking of them..
You: sheesh i would have taught someone how to do it, but no he was too impatient lol
Stranger: that was the most entertaining part
You: yeah it was like a whole 1 hour
You: now that i think about it Inception was such a long movie
Stranger: yep and the girl who went to his dream when he was cruelling with his wife
You: oh yeah that one girl from hmm
You: her name is from that movie Juno LOL
You: shes all pregnant there but flat in Inception hehe
Stranger: i havent remember her name
You: shes Juno lol
Stranger: ok
You: mr sanderson risked her life as well cuz he did not mention all the details to her
Stranger: what abt the last scene
You: oh snap dont even get me started on that lol
You: that last scene he was stuck in a dream for sure.
Stranger: do u think that a new series will be come
Stranger: i m waiting for his another part
You: nah no new seriers because the movie is self explanotary
You: hes obviosly been dreaming the whole time in the movie
Stranger: ok
You: think about when hes being chased in real life
You: look at the way he squeezes through bricks. nobody can squeeze through bricks in the reall worldlol
Stranger: but may be we will get a news that a new part is coming
You: oh shoot who announced the news?
Stranger: ya
You: is it the same director or a new one
You: that guy chris nolan
Stranger: so how many times you have seen that movie
You: from the SPAM and the other SPAM movie
You: i saw inception like 3 times lol
You: once at the theater, which i love going to.
You: the 2 later times on a blu day disc
Stranger: i have asaked that question because u know each and every one namwe
Stranger: i haev seen that movie only one time
Stranger: in theater
You: oh yeah normally i dont like studying but inception is smoething worth it
You: yeah usually i only watch movies once in the theater, except for titanic.. lol
Stranger: now i have buy his dvds as it is avilable in market
You: blurays are available 2
Stranger: but i havent get that enough time to see that movie again
Stranger: ya
You: well 3 hours of the same thing isnt very much motivation lol
Stranger: but they are really very expensive
You: if it were 3 hours of something new then am all go for a new watch
Stranger: ya u r right dear
You: some blu rays range from like 10-15 dollars on holidays or weekends
Stranger: have u seen a faster
You: if its worth it then im all for buying the bly ray
You: Faster with the rock?
Stranger: ay
Stranger: ya
You: YES!
Stranger: so hows taht
You: i cannot belive dwyane is some psycho in that movie lol
You: then he goes after that rookie serial killer like nothing lol
You: oh you still have not watched it?
Stranger: hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
Stranger: i haev seen that
You: XD you should have said that!
You: i was this close to bursting the end for you
You: lol
Stranger: have u seen narnia
You: heck yeah! who can forget that naughty tiger lol
Stranger: ya
Stranger: i ahev seen all three parts
Stranger: narnia
You: that is one heck of a well groomed tiger. in the national geographic movies all these tigers are nasty and not well groomed
Stranger: narnia and the prince caspian
You: yup!
Stranger: and the third one
You: but i wonder why the introduced those elf looking guys
Stranger: but i dont like onme think in thae last movie
You: isnt the 3rd one gonna be released in 2011?
Stranger: here in india
Stranger: its already released
You: jesus! thats quick
Stranger: ya
You: i wonder why they do that. release some movies faster that in other places
Stranger: do u want to listion the story
You: its got to be something with the say they produced the movie
You: shoot for it
Stranger: but personary this time i dont like that movie too much
Stranger: that was not like the another narnia movie
You: they went overboard with some characters
Stranger: ya
Stranger: u r right
You: the other narnias are like an adventure
Stranger: ya
Stranger: u hev a good knowldge
You: but this one theyre just escaping and the whole movie is just a big rush
Stranger: u r keen to watch movie
Stranger: as i m
You: oh yeah movies are so great for passing time
Stranger is typing...
You noticed this type of rapport? We both knew about the characters and events. We felt like we were very similar in the way we thought. Not once was rapport broken. The only problem I have with this is that I was doing most of the talking since this guy was some shy fucker living in his basement.
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You: hi!
Stranger: hi
You: 19 female california
Stranger: i am looking for indian girl
You: indian girls live in india
You: not in america lol
Stranger: yes i know
You: try to look in india for indian girls or the internet
Stranger: i am indian
You: what age?>
You: are you
Stranger: 22
You: 22 youre allowed to drink
You: i cant drink until im 21....
Stranger: yes i drunk already
You: well you do that often?
Stranger: what are you doing here
You: im working
You: on my work
Stranger: ohhhh
Stranger: where
You: right in my house
You: sitting in my computer chari
Stranger: okay
You: this chair is so big and im so tiny
Stranger: ha ha
You: but the desk is smaller like me
Stranger: ok
You: you chat alot?
Stranger: yes
You: chatting is simple with texts
You: especially the unlimited packages and such
Stranger: yes baby you are right
You: yeah but even chatting can get a bit naughty some times ya know lol
Stranger: how
You: well i dont know. to know that sort of things alcohol is needed lol
Stranger: you wanna drink
You: youre the drinker so youre the expert at chatting naughty _:)
You: ill take some distilled drinks. the heavy stuff
Stranger: okay
You: beer just has too little alcohol to get the freak out of someone lol
Stranger: yes you are right
Stranger:
You: thats why when you buy some alcohol get some wines and vodkas
Stranger: you are very naughty
You: well ive yet to see that cuz i havent drank yet
Stranger: i like wine not vodka
You: besides all this work is making me wanna break some rules right now
Stranger: vodka only for girls
You: what are some other girly drinks
You: the other ones are those little cock tails lol
Stranger: so whats your name
You: Jane
You: yours?
Stranger: ajay
Stranger: nice name
You: nice meeting you ajay (shakes hand)
You: thanks
Stranger: >>>>>>
You: Jane is a name from the place I grew up
Stranger: okay
You: its a super common name
You: for the place i live in
Stranger: okay
You: you come accross a lot of ajays? with the same name
Stranger: yes baby
You: lol
Stranger:
You: well listen to this
Stranger: what?
You: just yesterday i was readin this paper on this crazed maniac that was in mcdonalnds just went in there and wrecked the place while everyone had their calm nice breakfast
You: people are getting crazier these days
Stranger: why?
You: what sort of mindset makes a person flip out and want to destroy everyones breakfast, some crazy lunatic lol
You: oh and you have not heard everything until you watch those dysney movies, dont even get me started lol
You: what movies you do watch often?
Stranger: each and every kind of
You: horror, action? state your favorite
Stranger: i.e inception, chronicles of narnia, resident evil after life, tron legacy
You: \
Stranger: u can say each n every kind
You: LOL look at leonardo decaprio
You: lets see that guys name was
Stranger: i don't have ny specific state
You: mr... something
You: hmm its on the tip of my tongue
You: ah
Stranger: to whom u r talkin bout
You: its mr sanderson. thats the guys name in the movie Inception
Stranger: k..u lyk inception
Stranger: it was awesome movie
You: damn i cannot belive that mr sanderson would even risk his life going into the dream world
Stranger: yep who made to plan to be more richer than his competetor
You: and get this. not only did mr sanderson risk his life but hes risking his friends lives!! lol...
Stranger: true
You: yeah what is up with that riskin his life just for money..
You: crazy or what? this guy sounds to me like the mcdonalds nut.
Stranger: to make his mind set that there was a dispute between him and his father
You: except hes not in a dream world lol
You: yeah the fathers name i remember his face
You: but not his name
Stranger: thatz true
You: it must be mr sanderson SENIOR
Stranger: ha ha ha
You: then his kids he risked it all going into the 3rd level without even thinking of them..
You: sheesh i would have taught someone how to do it, but no he was too impatient lol
Stranger: that was the most entertaining part
You: yeah it was like a whole 1 hour
You: now that i think about it Inception was such a long movie
Stranger: yep and the girl who went to his dream when he was cruelling with his wife
You: oh yeah that one girl from hmm
You: her name is from that movie Juno LOL
You: shes all pregnant there but flat in Inception hehe
Stranger: i havent remember her name
You: shes Juno lol
Stranger: ok
You: mr sanderson risked her life as well cuz he did not mention all the details to her
Stranger: what abt the last scene
You: oh snap dont even get me started on that lol
You: that last scene he was stuck in a dream for sure.
Stranger: do u think that a new series will be come
Stranger: i m waiting for his another part
You: nah no new seriers because the movie is self explanotary
You: hes obviosly been dreaming the whole time in the movie
Stranger: ok
You: think about when hes being chased in real life
You: look at the way he squeezes through bricks. nobody can squeeze through bricks in the reall worldlol
Stranger: but may be we will get a news that a new part is coming
You: oh shoot who announced the news?
Stranger: ya
You: is it the same director or a new one
You: that guy chris nolan
Stranger: so how many times you have seen that movie
You: from the SPAM and the other SPAM movie
You: i saw inception like 3 times lol
You: once at the theater, which i love going to.
You: the 2 later times on a blu day disc
Stranger: i have asaked that question because u know each and every one namwe
Stranger: i haev seen that movie only one time
Stranger: in theater
You: oh yeah normally i dont like studying but inception is smoething worth it
You: yeah usually i only watch movies once in the theater, except for titanic.. lol
Stranger: now i have buy his dvds as it is avilable in market
You: blurays are available 2
Stranger: but i havent get that enough time to see that movie again
Stranger: ya
You: well 3 hours of the same thing isnt very much motivation lol
Stranger: but they are really very expensive
You: if it were 3 hours of something new then am all go for a new watch
Stranger: ya u r right dear
You: some blu rays range from like 10-15 dollars on holidays or weekends
Stranger: have u seen a faster
You: if its worth it then im all for buying the bly ray
You: Faster with the rock?
Stranger: ay
Stranger: ya
You: YES!
Stranger: so hows taht
You: i cannot belive dwyane is some psycho in that movie lol
You: then he goes after that rookie serial killer like nothing lol
You: oh you still have not watched it?
Stranger: hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
Stranger: i haev seen that
You: XD you should have said that!
You: i was this close to bursting the end for you
You: lol
Stranger: have u seen narnia
You: heck yeah! who can forget that naughty tiger lol
Stranger: ya
Stranger: i ahev seen all three parts
Stranger: narnia
You: that is one heck of a well groomed tiger. in the national geographic movies all these tigers are nasty and not well groomed
Stranger: narnia and the prince caspian
You: yup!
Stranger: and the third one
You: but i wonder why the introduced those elf looking guys
Stranger: but i dont like onme think in thae last movie
You: isnt the 3rd one gonna be released in 2011?
Stranger: here in india
Stranger: its already released
You: jesus! thats quick
Stranger: ya
You: i wonder why they do that. release some movies faster that in other places
Stranger: do u want to listion the story
You: its got to be something with the say they produced the movie
You: shoot for it
Stranger: but personary this time i dont like that movie too much
Stranger: that was not like the another narnia movie
You: they went overboard with some characters
Stranger: ya
Stranger: u r right
You: the other narnias are like an adventure
Stranger: ya
Stranger: u hev a good knowldge
You: but this one theyre just escaping and the whole movie is just a big rush
Stranger: u r keen to watch movie
Stranger: as i m
You: oh yeah movies are so great for passing time
Stranger is typing...