In my experience, certain attributes (such as money, looks, famous family background, etc.) only DHV if you don't explicitly point them out yourself. Banging your own drum is rarely an attractive quality, you might come across as needy for attention or trying too hard to impress. Let the girl find out in her own time, preferably from other sources (your friends, her friends, a newspaper, etc.).
A theoretical example I can think of is how a very handsome man would sound like a bragging tool if he boasts about how good looking he is. Similarly, if a very rich man goes on and on about how much money he has, it's rarely an attractive quality (unless you're looking to bag some golddiggers). There's a fine line between confidence and arrogance. I think just being nonchalant about your 'inherited' advantage comes across as more attractive because it demonstrates confidence and maturity, rather than insecurity.
The closest real world example I've experienced personally is similar in concept, although it doesn't represent an advantage from birth like yours: one of my friends from primary school has grown up to become a very famous pop star in the country in which we were born, but he's not really known in other countries all that much, if at all. If you imagine him going out abroad and boasting to girls about what a celebrity he is back home, you can see he'd come across as either arrogant or trying too hard to get attention even though he's technically being truthful. It's much more effective in terms of DHV if the girl finds out by herself (through a friend/wingman, or by looking up his name either via Facebook or Google).
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