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Author:  Legit_ [ Wed Nov 24, 2010 7:55 am ]
Post subject:  HB w/ Boyfriend (MAJOR IOI's) Question

Hi,

I don't need "tips" so much as someone else's advice on my situation.

I've been in a situation with an HB9 where we have 4-5 hours of contact twice a week (2-3 weeks). She has a boyfriend, but I've used some seriously mPUA natural game on her. From her IOI's, it is 90% certain that she is into me.

Here is the problem: she recently entered into a relationship (RIGHT BEFORE I started gaming her). I'm not sure how to proceed with this. I haven't k- or f-closed because I'm not sure if it's particularly ethical.

I have a little bit of oneitis, and wouldn't mind full-closing.

What would you guys do in this situation? Game as if she didn't have a BF? Try and escalate a k/f close?

Thanks.

Author:  Brny Stnsn [ Wed Nov 24, 2010 11:28 am ]
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Exactly the same question right here. Find myself to be in a similar situation.

Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Mon Nov 29, 2010 3:11 pm ]
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Add her to your list of girls and guys you invite out to stuff on weekends. Make her see you around other women who are into you. Flirt and be sexual with her (verbally), but don't do too much sexual kino. (e.g. my good female friends would be ok with me slapping their ass or grinding on the dancefloor, but it would be weird to hold their hand, kiss them on the lips or on the neck, stroke their inner thigh, or touch their breasts. Exception: "hey what do you think of my new boob job?")

Now personally, I wouldn't make a move on a girl who had a monogamous relationship with another guy. I'm not out to break relationships up just to get a girl, there are too many single ones out there.

However, if you show that you're a fun, flirty guy who can sexually escalate (i.e. NOT the kind of guy that gets LJBFed because they're being a pussy), then you're in her category of guys that she WOULD sleep with but can't because of some mitigating factor. You can then just stay friends with her, and game other women whilst waiting for her to break up with the other shmuck, then just keep doing exactly as you've been doing except kino escalate past friendly to sexual using push-pull.

Author:  Legit_ [ Mon Nov 29, 2010 7:56 pm ]
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Nice!!!

Excellent advice. This is basically what I decided to do when no one replied to my thread.

With this girl, the tricky part is where to draw the line of sexual kino. I say that because the last time I saw her she was ALL over me, using any flimsy excuse to sit on my lap etc...

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