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Author:  Sori [ Thu Nov 18, 2010 9:23 pm ]
Post subject:  Is this girl interested or just want to be friends or what?
I met this girl the two weeks ago on my way to work (My route usually falls into [Take Train A to Train B to Train C to Train D] She was sitting by herself in a two seater, so I decided to take the seat next to her. I didn't initiate conversation at all, in fact, I was straight up trying to sleep. About 5-10 minutes into the ride (during Train A), she made a comment to me about her coat becoming too warm due to heat from the train's heater. What did I think about it? No idea why she was telling me this. Throughout this conversation, I had made her laugh/giggle and disclose personal information about herself such as family, aspirations, job, and insecurities (such as finding a job post internship...*NOTE* She is a year younger than me and is currently taking an internship. I on otherhand just started the real life working deal).

Today, I met her on the train again. We sat together and ended up talking through Train C again. She ended up mentioning (I did not mention at all) that she was sorry for not replying to my text because she busy (or something to that extent). Again, our talk had little to no pause and was fairly productive.

Problem is, how do I know if she is interested in me? And do you think she just gave me her number (after I inquired for it) and keeps talking to me (I ask her questions as well as she asks me about myself) because she is just a nice person or is genuinely interested? I also found out yesterday that she mentioned she had bought something for her boyfriend (but that one sentence was the only time boyfriend was used out of the two and half hours I spent talking with her)

Two days ago, I saw her on the train and was talking with her again. I made a comment to her about my awesome tie that I had on and she pulled a sweater I had on underneath the jacket and said she really loved it. Also, she mentioned to me that she needed a good excuse to get out of work because her boyfriend was paying for a ticket for her to go visit her (He's in a far away state+much older 9 years). But yeah, after talking about that she said she'd see me Monday.

So I saw her on Monday, we had a nice talk again. I tried testing my bounds with her. Moved in to whisper something in her ear, she moved closer to listen to me. I also found out she wasn't going to see her boyfriend due to work reasons.
Also saw her today, she said if I she I was going to be on the train tomorrow. I said yes, and she said 'Ok, good'.

I saw her yesterday and today again. Today, we ran into each other on accident (both ending up in the same train car actually walking into each other) she commented on it saying how weird it was, and I was like, 'its obvious your magnetized towards me' she laughed and said yeaaa right. Anyway, later on she made a comment on how I was the only person she talks to on the train and she's usually doesn't like to talk to anyone in the morning. But yeah, that's about it for today.

And what do you think her deal is?
Author:  flyinghaney [ Fri Nov 19, 2010 1:05 am ]
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Shes yours for the taking man. If a woman comments on any article of clothing that you have on, she is interested. Her touching your sweater is a total I.O.I the question is not "what does she want" but rather "what are you going to do?" If your into her, which you are otherwise you would'nt have posted this, you should keep up with some cocky funny and get her out on no less than 2 dates. But make her chase you, as soon as she knows that you are an option.....GAME OVER!

Other wise keep up the good work.
Author:  Sori [ Fri Nov 19, 2010 8:46 pm ]
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Any other suggestions, guys?
Author:  josh4587 [ Sat Nov 20, 2010 11:36 pm ]
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Shes yours for the taking man. If a woman comments on any article of clothing that you have on, she is interested. Her touching your sweater is a total I.O.I the question is not "what does she want" but rather "what are you going to do?" If your into her, which you are otherwise you would'nt have posted this, you should keep up with some cocky funny and get her out on no less than 2 dates. But make her chase you, as soon as she knows that you are an option.....GAME OVER!

Other wise keep up the good work.
Couldnt of said it better your good man I wish those things would happen to be on a regular basis girls dont need game cause there girls but you can still make them chase you. Just ask her to go out sometime with all IOI's you lookng pretty good on this. Good Luck
Author:  Sori [ Sun Nov 21, 2010 4:23 am ]
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i just dont get why she doesn't reply to my text messages. i sent one today and no reply. what's the deal? if she was interested, wouldn't she reply?

anyway, aside from that, i thought i'd share some fun and perhaps inspirational news?
I went to a great venue yesterday in manhattan and my friend introduced me to some friends of his. i instantly picked my target (hb8) and grabbed her by the hand and said 'let's dance, sitting is boring. ur not boring right?'

So she came along, we danced. And then I started rubbing her inner thighs and grabbed her ass too, which she was totally cool with. But she said she didn't want to do me even though she kept saying i was so cute etc because she really likes someone else...so i said no problem, i just like to dance and she was cool with that. i tried doing some more kino, getting really close to her face, whisprin in her ear and giving her that seductive look. I was about to go in for some kiss action but she kind of moved away. I was like 'What you don't want to kiss me?' She said 'But I like someone else' And I used that whole canned routine just to see if it'd work (seemed like the perfect time), and I said 'OK let me ask u something. Are you spontaneous? Are you adventurous?' And she said yes to both. And then I said 'So then why won't you kiss me?' And she complied then and we started making out. However after that, she started texting her girlfriend and they met up and THEN SHIT WENT DOWN HILL. BUt oh well, good night, not bad at least..could've definitely ended in a f-close, but needed to figure out how.

Other than that, what about the girl on the train situation and her texts? And what did you think of my week :)?
Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Sun Nov 21, 2010 1:46 pm ]
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'What you don't want to kiss me?'
NO. BAD DOG!

Escalate using push-pull, and just go in for the k-close. If she's not receptive at that point, drop off, then re-engage and escalate again. NEVER get pouty or react in any way to her. Just take away her nice kino, keep having fun, and then give it back to her again and keep moving things forward.

Her: "I'm not sleeping with you"

You: "Ok...we'll see ;-)"

Also, you don't have to push for the k-close on the dancefloor. It's better, if you're gonna do it in the club, to find somewhere a bit more secluded so you don't activate her ASD. The other guy she likes? Just ignore what she says and change the subject. All hot girls have like 20 guys that are into them and are always in some kind of relationship. Just plough, don't be reactive if she puts up some (mostly TOKEN) resistance, and you will set yourself apart from the other douches.
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