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Author:  Mr_B [ Sun Apr 11, 2010 4:30 pm ]
Post subject:  girls replying to text messages..

Need some advice on a recurring problem that im experiancing.

Just to fill you in, my game revolves almost entirely around the club scene, so the girls im texting are either girls i have K-closed or girls that i have met and hung out with multiple times through friends that i am interested in and which i see fairly regularly at the local clubs I go to.

I have read multiple threads on text game so i am fairly aware of whats going on.
I have found i often dont get replies to my text messages and other times i get replies like 10 hours later. I generally take no reply as an indicator of disinterest and i will move on and forget about the girl, but this has happenned a few times now where i get no reply but then a few days later the girl will text me and ask me if im going to "club x" tonight, or invite me somewhere with friends which is clearly an IOI??? ill then reply and get no reply again.

Is this just dependant on the girl??
some ppl just dont reply if it doesnt suite them ?
(Generally i find when a girl is interested she will make an excuse to reply to almost anything i text)

Thx guys. Mr_B

Author:  thelenzel [ Sun Apr 11, 2010 9:12 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: girls replying to text messages..

Quote:
Need some advice on a recurring problem that im experiancing.

Just to fill you in, my game revolves almost entirely around the club scene, so the girls im texting are either girls i have K-closed or girls that i have met and hung out with multiple times through friends that i am interested in and which i see fairly regularly at the local clubs I go to.

I have read multiple threads on text game so i am fairly aware of whats going on.
I have found i often dont get replies to my text messages and other times i get replies like 10 hours later. I generally take no reply as an indicator of disinterest and i will move on and forget about the girl, but this has happenned a few times now where i get no reply but then a few days later the girl will text me and ask me if im going to "club x" tonight, or invite me somewhere with friends which is clearly an IOI??? ill then reply and get no reply again.

Is this just dependant on the girl??
some ppl just dont reply if it doesnt suite them ?
(Generally i find when a girl is interested she will make an excuse to reply to almost anything i text)

Thx guys. Mr_B
This is actually interesting...
I've been with girls who reply almost instantly, with girls who don't reply (Due to lack of credit), girls who reply at least 20 mins later ...
Sometimes I get a text, read it, and don't feel like answering, another times I am busy and say I will reply later and I forget, other times I reply instantly....
The times I don't feel like replying its because I'm not interested or not in the mood..
But if a girl doesnt respond a text, its probably one of two reasons.
She was busy and forgot to respond ..
Or simple, she didn't want to answer... : )

Author:  fournines [ Thu Apr 15, 2010 10:49 pm ]
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Don't take them inviting you out to a club as an IOI. It could be, yes. It could also be something as simple as them wanting to increase the size of their group, to look cooler and have more of a buffer from random guys hitting on them.

Author:  TheTruthPUA [ Fri Apr 16, 2010 4:40 am ]
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I agree don't take people invite you out to a club as an IOI... if they invite you to somewhere private that is more of an IOI... I would work more on closing stronger, seems kind of like your not building enough interest, because when I close I leave girls wanting more... and they usually always reply within first hour - two of the text being sent, which is the bad downside of text... either way that is my guess... another thing is don't take stuff like tht personal.. just don't text them back move on with your life and game other girls.

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