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Is it OK to buy her a drink in this situation?
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Author:  JKill5 [ Mon Mar 01, 2010 7:48 pm ]
Post subject:  Is it OK to buy her a drink in this situation?

scenario:

you have opened, and would like to kino escalate a little bit, or even isolate. you are in a bar/club and are AWAY from the actual bar, and have run out of your drink.

so, what i have done in the past is, when i need another drink, I say to her "wanna go to the bar with me and get a drink?" I then use this opportunity to take her by the hand, or lock arms, and proceed to the bar for a drink. Usually I order two drinks, one for me, one for her. I usually have had success with this but was wondering if there is a more PUA approach to this because I know that buying a girl a drink is AFC but in this situation it seeems different because SHE isn't asking you to buy one for her, rather you are initiating the purchase.

IF this is not a good thing to do, how would we go up to the bar for drinks without ME having to buy her a drink, or what would you do differently?

Author:  Conker [ Tue Mar 02, 2010 3:49 am ]
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I think you're doing fine. I think this is different than going "Would you like a drink?" out of nowhere. You are controlling the situation, this is very swoon-worthy for a girl I think.

Author:  JKill5 [ Tue Mar 02, 2010 4:18 am ]
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that's kinda my thought, too conker. thanks for the reassurance.

any other ideas, fellas?

Author:  ballerjackson [ Tue Mar 02, 2010 9:04 pm ]
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It isn't too AFC if you're clicking and you happen to run out of booze. A great way to have her join you, and subsequently isolate is to say: "Hold this (hold out your hand) while I get another drink." Then lead her to the bar.

Baller J

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