This girl I have been randomly bumping into has become the main core of my thought processes. I can't focus on my studies and I am having trouble sleeping because I cant stop thinking of her. I really want to get into a relationship with this girl because she is a nice girl and absolutely stunning. However here is the thing I am terrible at taking things to the next level. i am not sure if she is into me but here is something that happened this weekend:

I ran into her yesterday at the bar/club and she gave me a hug as I was heading to the bathroom and she asked why I wasn't dancing and grabbed my hand to go dance. But good old me felt that it would be better to go use the washroom first so I told her that I had to go to the bathroom but that I would be right back. She gave me a weird look but I didnt really clue into it til after because I was really drunk. I had to wait in line for like 10 minutes to go to the bathroom. In the bathroom I was all excited and then suddenly realized that I might have just missed my opportunity and that was the very truth. I didnt see her the rest of the night and I kinda feel like she thought I didnt want to dance with her.

Well I guess my question is how can I take this relationship further. I know I effed up that night and its been bugging me like crazy. I dont really want to let her know how I feel upfront but I am wondering how I can make obvious hints that I am interested w/o it being excessive.??

Ya I guess you can relate to my situation then.

I thought of that too though, that she might want it more since she couldnt get it the first time. I feel that I screwed myself over that night though because everything seemed to happen perfectly it all happened so fast lol

I was talking to her friend (without even knowing this girl was here) and she came over to me with a smile and she hugged me. Then asked why I wasn't dancing and yeah went from there.

The time I previously met her she gave me a little touch on my lower back, which I noticed. She also added me on facebook like 3 weeks ago.

The thing is, I do hide it but its still there, is my low self confidence. I feel like this girl is out of my league, even though a lot of girls do think I am good looking. When I first was running into this girl like 2 months ago, I thought she didn't even like me in general.

I guess also I just over-think things too much like I feel like she is not attracted to me for some reason. I never catch the IOI's til the conversation is over and I always attribute them to something else like maybe she is just being nice. But i don't know...